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    I took a good girl into a sex shop today and a discussion about size ensued. She said she had never been to a sex shop and I convinced her to check it out. While there I pointed out a few things that I already owned such as cock rings, pump sleeves, air pump and tube set; she told me about her ba wa balls and friends back rabbit she discovered helping her move.

    She's a pretty good platonic friend and we discuss sex openly, she's also a college rape survivor so it's more on her terms. Anyways, when we got to Bathmates she flipped out in the store and yelled "Why would you want to be that big? Unless you're really small...." I shook my head, I told "Well when you've been doing it for 15 years it's hard to stop." She said "When it's​ so big you have to sit on an ice pack afterwards it's too big," and she told me she used to have to do that after sex with one of exes which was why she broke up with him. She said he ended up marrying a porn star, or ex porn star. I wasn't paying attention but I remember the cashier making a joke about her having lots of practice.


    Then my friend turned towards the cashier and asked her what she thought, while placing her hands apart. The two women compared imaginary penis lengths and then girth making a circle with their fingers. I believe friend's interpretation of too big was around 8" by 6" and I'm not surprised. I told her I'm bigger than that and "that's why I go after really tall girls." After we left I showed her my size in the car WITH MY HANDS and she had a look of terror on her face. She's only about 5'3" so she's​ pretty small.

    She told me about how her boyfriend is not big but he knows how to use it and that size doesn't matter. BTW, I have lots of female friends and the topic of sex always comes up. But you would be surprised how little the topic of penis size comes up. I hear more about sexual compatibility issues and them trying to turn fuck buddies into long term relationships.

    Anyways, what do you guys think of this?
    TheGreatDivider
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    Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

  • #2
    I've had sex with my penis being 7"x(>)5" Pre-PE and a 7.5"x5.1+" after some PE, I hit the cervix with both sizes on different women and it was usually tight. 8" is very long and 6" is very thick, we are talking length and girth that are significantly above average and would be hard for some to take. With average size being somewhere around 5.5"x4.8" in the US, I don't think a big cock, or at least a 8"x6", is necessary to please a woman or what most women would go for. Size matters, but that can mean being too big is a burden as I'm sure you could tell better than I can.
    Start
    BPEL: 6.75-7"(not a good measurement)
    BEG: 5ish (not a good measurement)

    Current (4/10/2018)
    BPEL: 8"
    MSEG: 5.375-5.45"


    Goal
    BPEL: 8"+
    MSEG: 6"

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    • #3
      Hi,

      I'm not surprised at all.

      Woman are emotional as we all are. But sex is more emotional then physical, they can be with fat ugly bums and love it as long as there emotional needs are met.

      The size thing is mainly for our self confidence which can lead to attraction in of itself.

      Vaginas can conform to our penises so I've never viewed size in general as a problem. There are exceptions like micro penis etc...

      However there are certain spots inside a woman which can only be reached by a bigger then normal penis. And they may not even be aware of those spots until some one hits them.

      Of course this varies from woman to woman as some are deeper then others. Just as on us, some penises are longer, shorter, thinner, thicker then others. Then there is glans variation.

      In terms of a smaller woman taking on a bigger dick, that's an easy issue to solve. Go slow and easy with LOTS of foreplay. But seems like some are minimal on foreplay and simply want to thrust.

      These are generalities and not fast hard rules however. Simply my view points really and this is what you are asking for.

      At least I hope so as I don't like to babble.
      NBPEL 6 1/4" EG 5 1/4" - March 2017
      NBPEL 6 1/2" EG 5 1/2" - April 2017
      NBPEL 6 3/4" EG 5 1/2" - May 2017
      Goal; hard, strong, veiny

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      • #4
        Oh, I am not looking for sex advice or statistics on penis size in the US. Unlike the other threads in the woman's perspective this one is not size issues or insecurities. I'm the ex with the bigger dick not the new boyfriend looking for trouble. This is just a funny story that happened to relate to a discussion in size, one of many actually.

        I also have a pretty good stories about discussing size with muh gay friends, former party girls, 9s and 10s in college, and a couple strippers. All of whom shared their perspective on size and what they considered to be ideal.
        Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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        • #5
          Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View Post
          I took a good girl into a sex shop today and a discussion about size ensued. She said she had never been to a sex shop and I convinced her to check it out. While there I pointed out a few things that I already owned such as cock rings, pump sleeves, air pump and tube set; she told me about her ba wa balls and friends back rabbit she discovered helping her move.

          She's a pretty good platonic friend and we discuss sex openly, she's also a college rape survivor so it's more on her terms. Anyways, when we got to Bathmates she flipped out in the store and yelled "Why would you want to be that big? Unless you're really small...." I shook my head, I told "Well when you've been doing it for 15 years it's hard to stop." She said "When it's​ so big you have to sit on an ice pack afterwards it's too big," and she told me she used to have to do that after sex with one of exes which was why she broke up with him. She said he ended up marrying a porn star, or ex porn star. I wasn't paying attention but I remember the cashier making a joke about her having lots of practice.


          Then my friend turned towards the cashier and asked her what she thought, while placing her hands apart. The two women compared imaginary penis lengths and then girth making a circle with their fingers. I believe friend's interpretation of too big was around 8" by 6" and I'm not surprised. I told her I'm bigger than that and "that's why I go after really tall girls." After we left I showed her my size in the car and she had a look of terror on her face. She's only about 5'3" so she's​ pretty small.

          She told me about how her boyfriend is not big but he knows how to use it and that size doesn't matter. BTW, I have lots of female friends and the topic of sex always comes up. But you would be surprised how little the topic of penis size comes up. I hear more about sexual compatibility issues and them trying to turn fuck buddies into long term relationships.

          Anyways, what do you guys think of this?
          Hmm...I think if you make a habit of TAKING COLLEGE RAPE SURVIVORS INTO SEX SHOPS, HAVING CONVERSATIONS WITH THEM ABOUT PENIS SIZES, AND THEN AFTERWARDS EXPOSE YOURSELF TO THEM IN A CAR...You'll likely be serving time in prison soon....(maybe well-deserved), so get some HELP!... since you asked!

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          • #6
            Wtf!?!

            I totally missed the sexual assault in the car on my first read through.

            After skimming the OP I had just dismissed it as a veiled "my dick is this big" penis brag.
            How did I get here?

            Well I was looking for Pygmy.com (I gotta thing for small people, so what), and ended up here.
            And I've been here ever since.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by jockinthebox View Post
              Hmm...I think if you make a habit of TAKING COLLEGE RAPE SURVIVORS INTO SEX SHOPS, HAVING CONVERSATIONS WITH THEM ABOUT PENIS SIZES, AND THEN AFTERWARDS EXPOSE YOURSELF TO THEM IN A CAR...You'll likely be serving time in prison soon....(maybe well-deserved), so get some HELP!... since you asked!
              I never exposed myself to anyone. WTF is wrong with you?

              She's also handicapped​ and suffers from PTSD. You got a joke about that too?
              Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Ravenously View Post
                Wtf!?!

                I totally missed the sexual assault in the car on my first read through.

                After skimming the OP I had just dismissed it as a veiled "my dick is this big" penis brag.
                You want to run that by me again? I did not say I assaulted my friend nor did I expose myself to her.
                Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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                • #9
                  I just out of class and went to a restaurant with this girl, only to find you guys are insinuating that I have exposed myself to her and sexually assaulted her? What the fuck!?

                  Seriously, what the hell is wrong with you two? I have never and would never expose myself to anyone or sexually assaulting anyone least of all a rape survivor. What the actual fuck?

                  Jockinthebox, this better be your attempt at a bad joke because I'm​ seriously offended. This is not cool and I WILL NOT TOLERATE THESE BASELESS ACCUSATIONS!
                  Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by TheGreatDivider View Post
                    After we left I showed her my size in the car and she had a look of terror on her face.
                    I think this is the part that's being misinterpreted. I have to admit that when I read it initially my thought was "wait, he what?" and then I figured that you meant you visually showed her, not literally showed her.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Qandisa View Post
                      I think this is the part that's being misinterpreted. I have to admit that when I read it initially my thought was "wait, he what?" and then I figured that you meant you visually showed her, not literally showed her.
                      With my hands! My God, I would never just whip it out in front of anybody. That's not something I would do.

                      And she's a disabled rape survivor with a serious boyfriend. I'm just a platonic friend that goes shopping with her and gives her when she needs them, which is often because she's in so much pain.
                      Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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                      • #12
                        Calm down everyone. Breathe.
                        A prayer, is kinda the same as a "Like". If there are enough likes, God will take notice. So "Like" away please. My daughter needs your prayers. Thank You.

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                        • #13
                          Woosah.

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                          • #14
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                            I came here for the EQ, but I stayed for PE

                            Dick Stats
                            Aug 2016 BPFL 5.5" BPEL 6.5" EG:5.125" EQ:6/10
                            Jun 2017 BPFL 6.5" BPEL 7.25" EG:5.50 EQ 6.5/10
                            OCT 2018 BPFL BPEL 7.75" EG:5.50 EQ 7/10

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                            • #15
                              So...who wants a banana?

                              It's THIS big!
                              The name's Tamora...TVR Tamora...with a capital "T".

                              Lots of living to do yet unseen and a more stories yet untold!

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