Need advice on insecurity about using dildos which are much larger than my penis.

[AzorAzai]

Hi. I have a strange insecurity about using a dildo during sex which is larger than myself. My size is 5.3 girth and almost 6 inch length. The thing is, I actually prefer to use larger size dildos on women. I find it aesthetically appealing to see her "full up" so to speak.

I know it might seem like I am a glutton for punishment due to this, but I'm just wondering, from a female perspective, do you necessarily care for a partner using a larger dildo on you (if he has an average sized penis) or would you end up feeling like your sexual partner (casual or otherwise) is lacking compared to the dildo?

I have only ever used a larger dildo on two different women and during sex their reactions were indifferent. I feel like I pleased them with my penis as well as the dildo, but I don't really ask how they felt after sex so I would not know for definite.

I thought I would ask here to gage opinions from women. It would be great to hear your views on this, thanks.

[Shikamaru]

You sound like you are about the same size as me. I have indeed thought about this, maybe with girls who are super kinky. But i think we both are enough size to please a woman. I have sex with many woman who said i was great in bed and enough in size. It all depends on the stroke bro. As well as oral is a big thing for woman now a days. If you are able to please her with your mouth, it will help you in a lot of ways. Just as in how good it is, to have a woman who gives great head. A big bonus right? I suggest you start PEing as i am about to take my journey serious. 1-2 more inches on our penis will make it perfect! I have heard from plenty of woman how some guys are too big and it hurts. My ex liked a bigger mandigo penis, but my current gf is so tight her vagina wraps around my dick perfect. She is bi so the past two relationships she had was with a woman, so she hasnt been ran through like that. It is perfect for a man like me who is average and she fits right on it. I also fuck her amazingly ,and have made her squirt numerous times. I mean like real deal porno squirting like an ocean on the floor after. So i suggest only using your penis because of the confidence thing. A woman wants a real penis.