Need advice on insecurity about using dildos which are much larger than my penis.

[AzorAzai]

Hi. I have a strange insecurity about using a dildo during sex which is larger than myself. My size is 5.3 girth and almost 6 inch length. The thing is, I actually prefer to use larger size dildos on women. I find it aesthetically appealing to see her "full up" so to speak.

I know it might seem like I am a glutton for punishment due to this, but I'm just wondering, from a female perspective, do you necessarily care for a partner using a larger dildo on you (if he has an average sized penis) or would you end up feeling like your sexual partner (casual or otherwise) is lacking compared to the dildo?

I have only ever used a larger dildo on two different women and during sex their reactions were indifferent. I feel like I pleased them with my penis as well as the dildo, but I don't really ask how they felt after sex so I would not know for definite.

I thought I would ask here to gage opinions from women. It would be great to hear your views on this, thanks.

[Shikamaru]

You sound like you are about the same size as me. I have indeed thought about this, maybe with girls who are super kinky. But i think we both are enough size to please a woman. I have sex with many woman who said i was great in bed and enough in size. It all depends on the stroke bro. As well as oral is a big thing for woman now a days. If you are able to please her with your mouth, it will help you in a lot of ways. Just as in how good it is, to have a woman who gives great head. A big bonus right? I suggest you start PEing as i am about to take my journey serious. 1-2 more inches on our penis will make it perfect! I have heard from plenty of woman how some guys are too big and it hurts. My ex liked a bigger mandigo penis, but my current gf is so tight her vagina wraps around my dick perfect. She is bi so the past two relationships she had was with a woman, so she hasnt been ran through like that. It is perfect for a man like me who is average and she fits right on it. I also fuck her amazingly ,and have made her squirt numerous times. I mean like real deal porno squirting like an ocean on the floor after. So i suggest only using your penis because of the confidence thing. A woman wants a real penis.

[Physdoc]

A few women I've been with in the past liked to occasionally play with a dildo bigger than me. I didn't mind it a bit, in fact I bought the dildos for them and loved pulling it out for some special fun. I'm decent size and didn't feel threatened at all and didn't worry she'd get stretched out. What's said in the last post seems to be true, women prefer the real thing and good sex with a guy attached to the unit.

[CLOSEDNymphGamerAddict]

So most girls always have really large dildos, mine is 7.5 inches, and for good reason. When using it the first 3 - 4inches serve as a handle, so effectively we're only getting 4 - 5 inches at max.

[Justalittlemoreplz]

My advice is ask the recipient. Open dialogue with sexual partners is taboo for some reason amongst some people but being open about it improves the experience for both parties. As for size well that depends on your outlook on it. I bought my wife her first toy and several afterwards they are bigger but hell the sleeves dwarf them. I don't equate my size to my actual manhood. Unless I'm trying for another kid sex is for maximum satisfaction for those involved.

[TacoTaco]

My advice is ask the recipient. Open dialogue with sexual partners is taboo for some reason amongst some people but being open about it improves the experience for both parties. As for size well that depends on your outlook on it.

I agree the only way to truly know, is to keep an open dialogue with your sexual partners regarding their preference. Each girl has different preferences and if they're comfortable, will tell you if they are more comfortable to use one for foreplay with you as the main action, vise versa, or to alternate.