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    I’m talking to someone now, but I’m really insecure about my size. And would like to know if this forum can help? I have tried stretching and it doesn’t work.. is jelqing my only option? I’m 1 inch flaccid and 4.75 inch erect

    Like I said I’m talking to a woman but haven’t had sex with her and I’m extremely insecure about my size. It doesn’t help me that I’m small. Will she care? She’s looking for a relationship by the way

    Also I’m thinking of just popping viagra to take away my anxiety

    I know there’s no magic pill to get me to 7 inches over night lol

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    Do you have normal erections? Can you keep it up for a while?

    If so, you will do fine. The most important thing to take away from here is that you must not talk to her about your insecurity. I am sure she has her own insecurities. Just be yourself with her. I soon found that my lips and tongue worked much better to bring my lady to orgasms than did my dick. Just remember to be yourself, man when you are with her.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by going411by7 View Post
      Do you have normal erections? Can you keep it up for a while?

      If so, you will do fine. The most important thing to take away from here is that you must not talk to her about your insecurity. I am sure she has her own insecurities. Just be yourself with her. I soon found that my lips and tongue worked much better to bring my lady to orgasms than did my dick. Just remember to be yourself, man when you are with her.

      Yea I can get erect for awhile.. I’m just insecure because I’m smaller than average and I do bodybuilding lol so I look in shape but have a small penis

      Thanks though that helps me loosen my anxiety a bit

      I always get anxious because of my size when I have sex with someone new

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      • #4
        At worst, you're slightly below average. You don't have a "small" penis.

        I don't do enlargement myself, but there's people with heaps of knowledge on the subject here who would be able to help with that.
        closed289
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        Last edited by closed289; 01-05-2020, 09:25 AM.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by Newuser12 View Post
          I’m talking to someone now, but I’m really insecure about my size. And would like to know if this forum can help? I have tried stretching and it doesn’t work.. is jelqing my only option? I’m 1 inch flaccid and 4.75 inch erect
          4.75 erect is just under average, and depending on the girth probably falls within the average range.

          In terms of what can be done, there are other things besides jelqing, but allow me to address that first:

          Try jelqing after getting erect (Not erect jelqing!). What I mean is, get hard, as hard as possible, then as the erection subsides do the jelqing. Jelq at about 50% or less. Go slow, be careful. Be sure to be well warmed up first.

          Apart from jelqing there is edging and erect kegels.

          There are a number of guys who have reported that edging alone has helped increase size.
          https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...largement.html

          And others have used erect kegels (I am trying them these days)
          https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...le-edging.html

          Read carefully and thoroughly
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          • #6
            I hate to break it to you chief but if you're just talking to her, and for whatever reason you haven't gone on a date with her, it's probably not going to happen. Your size or lack there of is not going to change her mind on that one. Make sure you're talking to more women than just her so you're not devastated when you don't get with her.

            Find you a girl that wants to hang out, go on a date with you, kiss you, and take things further after a few dates without you having to talk her into it. And don't mention your size under any circumstance. She doesn't need to know your insecurities and you don't need to know hers. Dating = Sex not chit chatting with some girl like she's your therapist.

            No matter what you've got going on in your pants don't talk about sex with any woman you're interested. What you've got and what you can do for in bed should be a surprise and not a spoiled plot. Because even if your small she can still work with you and have fun and you can do more for her with your mouth and fingers than your penis can.

            I hope this helped.
            Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline Kael

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            • #7
              Any update on how this played out, I'm so curious?

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