Helping Wife/GF Become Multi-Orgasmic

[madyogi]

So, this will probably turn into an "Every Peach is Different" thread, but I'm gonna try anyway.

I've been getting into Dry Orgasms/MMO during my edging sessions alone lately. I also picked up copies of The Multi-Orgasmic Man and The Multi-Orgasmic Woman, and have been casually reading through them. My wife and I are in our early-to-mid forties, and I'm really looking at using my PE journey to create the best sex life ever for us as a couple.

My wife is quite orgasmic (she rarely doesn't climax when we're having sex), and as I've grown larger she has started to have more PIV/G-Spot orgasms, but she is normally "one and done". She did ask specifically about trying to have more than one orgasm several months back, and we accomplished that, but she hasn't really mentioned it lately.

I'm curious as we move forward what might be the best ways to help her become more frequently multi-orgasmic. Like, should I go ahead and take her to orgasm during foreplay, just to kind of get the first one "out of the way" before penetration?

Obviously I will communicate with her about what works for her and/or not, but I wanted to see what others thought about this.

[RageWarrior]

My girl was a one and done until I told her it was possible to have multiple orgasms, now if she climaxes before me she'll just keep riding until I get there.

I think communication is pivotal and she'll have to make the decision herself to keep going once she's had her first. It may help to get here there before PIV since the climax would almost be considered part of foreplay and the full narrative is about to unfold. (You might end up getting 3 if she's willing)

[madyogi]

My girl was a one and done until I told her it was possible to have multiple orgasms, now if she climaxes before me she'll just keep riding until I get there.

I think communication is pivotal and she'll have to make the decision herself to keep going once she's had her first. It may help to get here there before PIV since the climax would almost be considered part of foreplay and the full narrative is about to unfold. (You might end up getting 3 if she's willing)

Thanks for the perspective! I think this will be my approach, but I'd love to hear from others also.

[Ultimate Burrito]

I think a lot of it has to do with how well she understand's her own body. My ex wife was a one and done and would basically tell me to hurry up after she got hers. Out of 10 years of marriage I could probably count on one hand the number of times she came more than once. It never went past two orgasms if I remember correctly. For her the orgasms were too intense to continue, like she would come to a complete stop and just tense up and then become too sensitive afterwards.

There was one partner I had that had 9 orgasms in an hour, we were kinky and would record our meetups, I gave her homework to review the footage and count. Most of my partners could have two or three.

A suggestion might would be to have her indulge in some wine before hand and have a lot of foreplay beforehand. Also, when she orgasms just keep going but slow down and gradually build the intensity back up (like shifting gears).

[Party]

Being married to a hyper multi orgasmic wife is great but I can’t keep up with her. So I started bringing vibes into the bed, bigger and more powerful as she became more accepting of them. I'm starting to feel like an after thought. The vibes I must admit helped her understand how to orgasm frequently, including with just my dick. I’ve gotten to the point where if she isn’t having frequent, multiples, I can’t cum PIV. LOL. How funny is that? The shoes on the other foot. I did notice a change when I got big enough to stroke her cervix and now, before sex I pump thick which she sees me doing before hand. She’s never told me not to. But the biggest change was when she entered menapause and after. Everything came together, her comfort with herself, my new bigger size and the vibraters. A few examples of her new abilities: can have orgasms with just my dick inside, no movement, she’s had a full body shaking orgasm from me just holding her pre sex, once felt and counted 100 orgasms inside her with vibraters on clit in 30 minutes, and she has gut wrenching multiples in her sleep. Shakes the bed and wakes me up, and then of course I lose sleep watching her for an hour.

[madyogi]

I think a lot of it has to do with how well she understand's her own body. My ex wife was a one and done and would basically tell me to hurry up after she got hers. Out of 10 years of marriage I could probably count on one hand the number of times she came more than once. It never went past two orgasms if I remember correctly. For her the orgasms were too intense to continue, like she would come to a complete stop and just tense up and then become too sensitive afterwards.

There was one partner I had that had 9 orgasms in an hour, we were kinky and would record our meetups, I gave her homework to review the footage and count. Most of my partners could have two or three.

A suggestion might would be to have her indulge in some wine before hand and have a lot of foreplay beforehand. Also, when she orgasms just keep going but slow down and gradually build the intensity back up (like shifting gears).

So a few things in my/our favor: She has had multiples on at least one occasion, so we know she's been there. She does tend to have "terminal orgasms," leaving her finished, but she very rarely needs to stop me from pumping more to finish myself off after, so we know she can generally handle more stimulation. She likes her drinks on a Saturday night, and that usually gets her in just the right spot.

I just have to concentrate on having fewer drinks myself to avoid Whiskey Dick and look at it like I'm trying to get her drunk to take advantage of her. She might even find that hot if I told her so sometime during the evening. I'll try to go slow if I'm having a hard time getting hard. She doesn't mind that. I think I'll try to bring her to orgasm once before I enter her, and begin slowly building the arousal roughly 30-60 seconds after her first orgasm.

Tomorrow night or Sunday morning should be my next opportunity. We'll see how it goes.

[madyogi]

Being married to a hyper multi orgasmic wife is great but I can’t keep up with her. So I started bringing vibes into the bed, bigger and more powerful as she became more accepting of them. I'm starting to feel like an after thought. The vibes I must admit helped her understand how to orgasm frequently, including with just my dick. I’ve gotten to the point where if she isn’t having frequent, multiples, I can’t cum PIV. LOL. How funny is that? The shoes on the other foot. I did notice a change when I got big enough to stroke her cervix and now, before sex I pump thick which she sees me doing before hand. She’s never told me not to. But the biggest change was when she entered menapause and after. Everything came together, her comfort with herself, my new bigger size and the vibraters. A few examples of her new abilities: can have orgasms with just my dick inside, no movement, she’s had a full body shaking orgasm from me just holding her pre sex, once felt and counted 100 orgasms inside her with vibraters on clit in 30 minutes, and she has gut wrenching multiples in her sleep. Shakes the bed and wakes me up, and then of course I lose sleep watching her for an hour.

This gives me something to look forward to once my wife goes through menopause in 10 years or so .... at least I think I'm looking forward to it.

[Pegasus]

It ha struck me that women tend to have single orgasms for similar reasons to why men do .
So to start with they think that is all they are capable of . So they focus on achieving an orgasm (singular) and rush the build up . For women they have the thought that the man is going to ejaculate and lose interest so they want to get there before that happens . In a sense I think women would benifit from taking some aspects of male mult orgasm practise to heart .

Had a thread somewhere that may be of interest will see if I can find it .

[Pegasus]

Read this
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/999...tml?highlight=

[madyogi]

Thanks for the info, Pegasus! Based on the positives already mentioned, I think my wife is a good candidate. We'll see where it goes as we share this journey moving forward.