What is the ideal penis size that most women prefer???

[dxbpe]

I wasn't referring to whether you wanted to use different positions. You said that women would disagree that size doesn't matter if they had a cervical orgasm. My response was to say that size isn't a factor for most men since it's possible to reach the cervix given the right position. Whether you want to or not wasn't the point.

Some vaginal canals reach 9 inch deep when aroused, the cervix is at the back of that canal. What position do you want to use to reach the cervix of a 9 inch deep woman ?

[Johnny D]

Some vaginal canals reach 9 inch deep when aroused, the cervix is at the back of that canal. What position do you want to use to reach the cervix of a 9 inch deep woman ?

I said "most". Statistical outliers shouldn't be the source of concern for men.

[GettingOverIt]

Does the length of a woman's vagina stretch as far back as her vagina ever had before?
Like if she had been with a 8" penis before on a regular basis previously, when she's aroused, will her canal stretch for preparation of the 8" penis?
OR
Does the length of her canal have nothing to do with how far she was stretched out length wise since losing her virginity?
If I am correct about this... then size does matter to her. Fortunately, sometimes, women stay in relationships for many other reasons, but if she's cum many times easily with a big penis previously, ideally she would definitely welcome back that size. Just think this is the case with women. Sometimes I think women say size that was bigger wasn't good because they're no longer with the guy and don't want to upset current guy... for the most part, I think she had intense in the moment sex while in the act with previous guy... probably better physically.

[DildoShwaggins]

Late to the party but just a story i read on reddit once

Guy says his housemate once did a streak across campus while drunk. He didnt know this before (and no one else did apparently) but turns out the dude is hung! Says over the next semester the guy had twice as many girls over than the rest of his house of 6 dudes combined.

Again this is all coming from reddit and from 1 or 2 girls i have heard in the past say they "get their organs rearranged" or something along those lines.

Maybe some urban myths or just straight up lying on the internet (the audacity) but it does appear that girls do get drawn to bigger dicks. Whether its just to try it out or if its a preference, who knows, but I will say it has somewhat fueled my fire for PE.

One thing I will also say is, whether a womans preference is 8 inches or 6 or 4, It seems that guys insist on going balls deep no matter that their size. You know you dont have to use the full thing right? You can stop the inch or 2 short if they say so. Also having those extra few inches does make more positions possible. I have seen on kama sutra or porn or playing cards, all sorts of weird and wacky positions that flat out seem impossible without alot of length. An extra incentive i have found for PE and will keep me on my journey. Just my 2 cents on the matter.

[SuperGuy]

Guys tend to care more about this than girls. my last gf was 5'5 and at the time I was 6.5 length and like 5 girth. When I asked her about size she told me that she thought my size was good but just a bit smaller would be perfect. I would bottom out in every position and she said she was sore for days. Personally 7.25x5.5 is what I want, but I think most girls would actually be happier with my current size vs my goal. Generally speaking if you're confident about your size then that confidence will resonate and make sex better for you and the person you're with.

Every girl is different. In general the wider the hips the more girth she can take.
Source: One of my gym bros told me.

[Party]

Guys tend to care more about this than girls. my last gf was 5'5 and at the time I was 6.5 length and like 5 girth. When I asked her about size she told me that she thought my size was good but just a bit smaller would be perfect. I would bottom out in every position and she said she was sore for days. Personally 7.25x5.5 is what I want, but I think most girls would actually be happier with my current size vs my goal. Generally speaking if you're confident about your size then that confidence will resonate and make sex better for you and the person you're with.

Every girl is different. In general the wider the hips the more girth she can take.
Source: One of my gym bros told me.

I would agree with that. I’m 6.75 BPEL and 5.25 girth. Can reach both her upper and bottom deep cervix spots now, she loves it. But I’d like to be at least 7 so I can reach them with our Tri motor Tryst Cock ring on.

[RoyBoy111]

When I started PE, I did some heavy research to determine average penis dimensions and "the women's ideal" dimensions, so I could chart my measurements and gains against an "average" and "ideal." I do medical research for a living, so have access to even the raw data (key to understanding the average) and method details from most published studies. As you could guess, there is a lot of variation between different studies - not just measurements, but also study methodology. So, take averages with a grain of salt as variance of raw data can be high. I sifted through the data from what I considered credible studies and cleaned it up to come up with my own set of measurements for what women consider ideal. Here are the numbers I use - 6.9" BPEL and 5.1" EG, which has a volume of 234ml, depending on penis geometry. I did adjust the data best I could to account for the BP vs NBP issue. Don't ask me to cite all the studies, because I didn't keep a list - sorry.

One thing to keep in mind is that women, understandably, give a different answer when asked for ideal size for a regular partner and ideal size for a one-night stand/optimal orgasm. Most go for a significantly larger penis for a one-night stand, especially larger girth (over 5” EG). The average I stated is a blend of these sizes. There was a clear preference (far less data variance) for more girth as opposed to more length in both preference for regular and one-nighter sizes. I found in the data that if women had to choose between average length and big girth or longer length and average girth, they strongly tend toward taking the larger girth option. I also noted a clustering of women who liked a MUCH larger girth for optimal orgasm. But that cluster had a pretty clear “max” at approaching 6” EG.

Another thing to keep in mind when looking at studies is that both women and men are terrible at guessing length or girth sizes. When women are asked to just state a size preference, like in an online survey, they invariably state a much longer size (8” length preference came up in a recent study). BUT, in studies when women are actually allowed to see and hold a model of a penis (like a dildo), they invariably choose a much shorter model as ideal (6.5-7.0”) and often guess its length as much longer than it actually is. What is more consistent in both methods is the preference for girth over length. You can also find loads of posts by women saying how surprised they were when they measured their “hung” guy only to find out they weren’t anywhere near 8” after all.

that's quite a good comment here (by medium.com):
So, after weeks of work and research we found that the average dildo measures up at a full length of 7.52" (19.1 cm), beating the average penis which stands at 5.16" (13.1 cm).
However, the usable length differs, as you need room for your hand holding a dildo. By such, the usable dildo length is only 6.54" (16.6 cm). Still, that makes the average dildo 21% longer.
When it comes to girth there is less difference. The width of the average sized dildo is at 4.65" (11.82 cm) while the human penis is just slightly thinner with its 4.59" (11.66 cm).

[incogneeetoe]

Over on r sexpolls men are always asking similar questions:


How big is too big?

4 6 inches

11 7 inches

27 8 inches

37 9 inches

30 elephant trunk

-> 96% of respondents say 7 and above is too big.



Preferable penis size in a long term relationship or a hook-up situation?

6 3-5 inches

61 5-7 inches

23 7-9 inches

4 9+ inches

-> 64% prefer 5-7



Is 5'5 inches enough for you?

53 Female: Yes

10 Female: No

37 Male: Yes

7 Male: No

-> 84% of female respondents say 5.5 inches is enough



Ladies, your about to hook up with a guy for the first time, what are you hoping for?

6 Smaller then average cock

38 Average cock

30 Above average size cock

18 A big cock

4 A monster cock

-> 45% are hoping for average or less



What is the perfect penis size to you?

2 4 Inches

12 5 Inches

41 6 Inches

30 7 Inches

19 8 Inches

-> 39% say 6 inches, 29% say 7 inches



What is too THICK?

1 less than 4 inches

3 4 inches

9 5 inches

15 6 inches +

-> 85% of respondents say 5 inches girth and above is too thick.


So, if you are considering the most women, 6x5 is right in the sweet spot.

Or better yet, don't do PE for women, do it for yourself. Make yourself the best you can be. Find your ideal size.
Consider:

What’s more important in a man?

16 How often his dick gets hard

26 Size of his dick

37 How hard his dick gets

39 How quickly he recovers after sex so that he can fuck again

52 How long he can last

-> Only 16% of respondents think size is important, yet 33% (double) think stamina.

[DickerSchwanz]

These statistics are this way cause almost all guys girls fuck, are average. 90% of dicks are 1 standard deviation from the mean average up and down.
They have to fuck hundreds of guys to increase their chances to get a guy with a dick above 2 standard deviations.
1 Standard deviation is probably ~ 1.5 inches.

[CBateman]

These statistics are this way cause almost all guys girls fuck, are average. 90% of dicks are 1 standard deviation from the mean average up and down.
They have to fuck hundreds of guys to increase their chances to get a guy with a dick above 2 standard deviations.
1 Standard deviation is probably ~ 1.5 inches.

How so? I standard deviation is about 1.89cm if you look at calcsd western average. 1.5 inches is waaayy waaayy waaayyy too much and screws up your whole bell curve.