I have never made my girlfriend orgasm with my dick

[BundleUp]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/999...tml?highlight=

This is an excellent post. For once, piv orgasms aren't blamed on men not being enough from a woman's perspective.

But let's be honest: most women are perfectly happy blaming men for a lack of vaginal orgasms, or saying "she just can't" because it takes all responsibility off of themselves. And men have been trained to accept that responsibility or let them off the hook because "we shouldn't judge". Well, it may be an unpopular opinion (especially among women), but we SHOULD judge, and we should judge just as harshly as we're judged.

[Pegasus]

Ok if you liked that one here is another.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...tml?highlight=

[VIIby5]

My wife never came from PIV (or from anything else) for 17 years after we met. I am pretty sure she had gotten close but actively prevented it from happening. She told me she used to feel like she had to pee so she would do stuff to make the sensation go away. From my understanding that sensation is a common precursor to orgasm in women.

I dont think I did anything different. She just all of the sudden decided to relax and go with it. Unfortunately things are kind of back to where they were now. She has the occasional orgasm but no where near as frequent as they were about 10 gears ago where she was having gushing culdesac orgasms.

While I do believe a big dick can certainly help things along and even make the orgasms better, most of the time its up to the woman in regards to whether they want to have an orgasm or not. Some women just cant do it or may require a certain size to attain it.

[jamjar]

My advice is a little bit contrary to what other guys here say, but I would actually focus more on the psychological experience of sex. My first sexual experiences were all basically just poundings without too much thought, and while they could get me off they wouldn't get the girls off. Only once I slowed it down and tried to focus on providing a good experience for the girls did they actually start to cum. I think that orgasm is much more closely linked to arousal than a lot of people think, so focus on keeping the girl aroused and you may have better luck. Dirty talk, spanking etc.