I have never made my girlfriend orgasm with my dick

[tommyjohn26]

I can get her to orgasm so quickly orally through clit stimulation and even fingering her vagina (with the come here motion) but never with my dick.

I am 7.1 x 5.5 so I feel like that should be enough to get her even once to cum. And I literally can last very long sometimes its even a struggle for me to reach orgasm, so thats not the problem. I just read all these posts on here with guys that are like 6.5 x 5 and making their wives cum twice a night and I can't even once. I know women's vaginas come in all shapes and sizes but its just frustrating knowing I can't satisfy her like that.

Anyway I recently read somewhere that seemed interesting, maybe I'm watching too much porn and my style of sex is off. Im usually just going straight in and out like a jackhammer, but I read that if you go in a circular motion with ur hips it can hit at different angles and satisfy her. Or even doing shallower thrusts and then one deep one.

Any advice on this would be appreciated.

[Pegasus]

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/999...tml?highlight=

[Physdoc]

Loads of women can't orgasm from PIV alone. They need clitoral stimulation. You can completely ignore porn, because those orgasms are likely 90+% fake. My gf often needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm, so she uses a little vibrator or her fingers on her clit sometimes when we have sex - cums every time. Another thing that works for her is deep penetration to where she can rub her clit on me - the cowgirl position is best for that (also the variation of scissors I posted about on here last week). We also do doggy, or other positions that allow me to reach around and rub her clit or her have room to play with herself. I just posted on another thread about the Svakom Tyler vibrating cock ring we use for the same reason.

Just go with it and figure out how to make the best of it. And get out of your mind any selfish stigmas that make you think your girl must orgasm by just you PIV. Sex is most fun as a team sport!

[Johnny D]

It sounds like thrusting may not do it for her. Since she can g-spot orgasm, use the head of your dick to stroke her g-spot as if it was your finger. Get into a position that allows you to aim more directly toward her g-spot and then stroke with shallow movements. Just 1 or 2 inches of movement may be enough.

My wife is very clitoral but also likes to orgasm while PIV. This is pretty common and you just have to trust that what feels like very little thrusting movement from you can feel pretty intense inside of her if she's ok with your full length in her. You'll press your pubic bone to hers and use that pressure to stimulate her clit with more of a rocking than a thrusting motion. You won't really feel the thrusts yourself, because they're only maybe 1/2" or so, but she can feel that deep inside of her which adds to clitoral stimulation.

[not2big]

I use oral to get my wife to orgasm the first time and then penetrate to get her orgasam next.

[Party]

What ^^^ they said.

[Pegasus]

I should imagine ability to piv orgasm will start to affect partner choice across the community . Simply because a lot of men like it . Which increases the relevance of post 2.

[pfm]

I found what works for some women is while going in is to angle and maximize the pressure between the penile shaft and the roof of the vagina where the g-spot and clitoris reside. While pressing against the roof of the vagina also rotate your hips to rotate the penis while thrusting to further increase friction in that area. While withdrawing continue to press upward, but your rotation will be reversed when straightening your hips. This takes practice and can be accomplished unless you have back issues and other.
Other women like a deep but gentle thrust hitting the a/p spots (not the cervix).

[BigO]

Try different positions. It can make a huge difference. Jack hammering the hoo ha isn't always the best method.

My wife comes easier from the spooning position or from any position that is from behind. When she is cumming, then she wants to be jack hammered but not until the toes are starting to curl.

Its all about experimenting. That is half the fun! No two women are the same.

[BundleUp]

You know how a blowjob that's just in and out is kinda boring? Feels ten times better when she's turning her head, using the insides of her cheeks, etc, right?

Work your hips. Go in to the left, hit full depth, rotate up and to the right, withdraw an inch or two, rotate down and back to the left, repeat. Switch after a few seconds. Or put her legs up, tilt up on the way in, down on the way out, again switch the directions after a few seconds (careful of hitting the cervix too hard, might not be able to go balls deep sometimes). Vary the depth: work the first two inches for a few seconds, give her a few full thrusts, then work the last couple inches.

Mix and match, get creative. Soon enough you'll find what makes her sing