This question is for BW and TTBB, but any guys who have solved this problem can chime in as well.
I have a great girlfriend who loves sex, but very rarely does she come more than once during a session. This in no way seems to bother her, but I would like to see her become multi orgasmic. Just for reference, she is 40 and I'm 43, so she has had plenty of experience before me (we've been togther about a year and a half). Though I have never specifically asked her, she has indicated that 'one and done' has been her norm (or maybe occassionaly 2 or 3, but not often). She has come 3 times with me, but that was over a multi hour session in which I finished 3 times as well and was early in our relationship.
She seems to orgasm like a guy, i.e. she comes loud and hard and needs to rest afterwards. She is much more into penetration vs. oral, which is a new one to me. I've always had easy success with oral in the past, so I think my technique is good, but with her it takes some time and work to get the job done.
I've even bought her vibrators to see if that would help her become multi, but she prefers me (which is nice), and doesn't really give them a chance. She will use it for one orgasm if I bring it out for her, but has no desire to continue using it after that.
I've done research on the topic, but to date have not found a secret that works.
I know you may say, "if she's happy, why push it", and that might be the right answer. But I can't help but wonder if there is some trick or technique I could try to would push her over the edge.
Any ideas?
On a side note, the last time we had sex she said she thought she came twice (back to back real quick), but I don't know what I might have done differently. It was just normal penetration, with her on top.
I have a great girlfriend who loves sex, but very rarely does she come more than once during a session. This in no way seems to bother her, but I would like to see her become multi orgasmic. Just for reference, she is 40 and I'm 43, so she has had plenty of experience before me (we've been togther about a year and a half). Though I have never specifically asked her, she has indicated that 'one and done' has been her norm (or maybe occassionaly 2 or 3, but not often). She has come 3 times with me, but that was over a multi hour session in which I finished 3 times as well and was early in our relationship.
She seems to orgasm like a guy, i.e. she comes loud and hard and needs to rest afterwards. She is much more into penetration vs. oral, which is a new one to me. I've always had easy success with oral in the past, so I think my technique is good, but with her it takes some time and work to get the job done.
I've even bought her vibrators to see if that would help her become multi, but she prefers me (which is nice), and doesn't really give them a chance. She will use it for one orgasm if I bring it out for her, but has no desire to continue using it after that.
I've done research on the topic, but to date have not found a secret that works.
I know you may say, "if she's happy, why push it", and that might be the right answer. But I can't help but wonder if there is some trick or technique I could try to would push her over the edge.
Any ideas?
On a side note, the last time we had sex she said she thought she came twice (back to back real quick), but I don't know what I might have done differently. It was just normal penetration, with her on top.
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