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  • Women, does your man know you are on this website?

    I was just thinking to myself how weird it would be if my girlfriend were to know I was on this site. Like, what kind of conversation would it be? Then, the opposite occurred to me. What if my girlfriend was on this site? What if she had been a member for years? What kind of implications does that suggest?

    I wouldn't say this website is akin to porn. But, if we were on a vagina website and it was all about tightening the vagina and I was a thousand post member, what would my girlfriend think of me? I am sure she would think I am some kind of pervert versus the support group archetype I am sure many of you actually fulfill.

    So women, do your men know that you are here and how do they feel about it?

  • #2
    Ya know, there are just a few of us ladies here.... and we play an usual role on the PEGym. I think most of us feel that we work best when you all aren't wondering what guys here we might be attached to, or pestering us with PMs guessing who our men might be, or asking us similar questions in the middle of threads on other topics. So I have made it a rule to keep my mask on, and simply not answer questions about things like this.

    Other ladies may choose to answer, or not. We all came to this site different ways, but I think I can speak for all of us in saying that we reveal what we feel comfortable with, and no more. Most of us will probably not feel comfortable answering your post, itguy. No reflection on you -- it is a reasonable thing to wonder -- it is just that we prefer to keep some things private.

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    • #3
      Funny! I have had the same burning question since I joined. I wondered why a woman would be on a site like this. I think its a very reasonable question to have in one's mind, and I'm surprised that you dont wish to answer it Batwoman. Its not as though he is asking for your stats, pictures of yourself, or address, or whether or not your husband/partner is on here too, or indeed for your phone number!

      I know you have your privacy rights, just like everyone the world over, but still, as he has written, it would be kind of odd if a man was on a site talking to women about their vaginas.

      I dont want to know the ins and outs of a ducks arse, just curious as to how and why females such as yourself and TTBB (I dont know of any other females here) have gotten involved with such a site.

      You say 'most of us will not comfortable answering your post itguy'. Does that not strike you as odd in your own mind? What is there to hide? I mean its not as though you have an ultra-small penis and are embarrassed even to say that in public even though thats what this site is all about-making a (small) penis bigger...

      I do not wish to offend you in any way, or any other females come to that, I am a just typical guy with a curious mind (not being nosey or have an ulterior motive for finding out your reason(s)-just curious), asking (what I feel to be) a very logical, reasonable question given the circumstances. Like itguy, I guess.
      Start: 26/06/10
      BPEL = 6.5"
      MEG = 5.75"
      Current (24/10/10)
      BPEL = 6.75"
      MEG = 6"
      Short term goal 8 x 6 :D
      Ultimate goal 9 x 7 :eek:

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      • #4
        They're on here because they're smart, fun, cute ( well I think maybe one or two are cute;the rest well you can have em) and they have great insight into the stupidity of men! Now if you asked the ladies WHY they are here, well the answer to that is obvious;me!
        CUSP82
        Administrator
        Admin of the Month Dec 2014
        PEGym Hero
        Last edited by CUSP82; 11-23-2010, 12:02 PM.
        The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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        • #5
          Very good. Good diversion tactics, sir!

          I guess one shall never know..
          Start: 26/06/10
          BPEL = 6.5"
          MEG = 5.75"
          Current (24/10/10)
          BPEL = 6.75"
          MEG = 6"
          Short term goal 8 x 6 :D
          Ultimate goal 9 x 7 :eek:

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          • #6
            It's da truth!
            The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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            • #7
              I agree with Batwoman in the matter of only revealing what I feel comfortable with, and the wish for no speculation about who my boyfriend is.

              He showed me this site. When he felt comfortable with telling me about the whole PE thing, he did.
              I'm here to learn and to share my thoughts when people have questions about how girls think. When there are questions, I have to think about how i feel about the matter, and by doing that, I learn new things about myself.

              I know this site is mainly about penis health and enlargement, but that doesn't interest me too much. The relationship and woman's perspective forums does.

              And, there is actually one more thing that keeps me here, and that is the chance to practice writing in English, which I'm not really used to.

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              • #8
                I think it comes down to the fact we don't need ya'll picturing the sex or involved in our relationships...I would also say that the men obviously don't have an issue with us being here or we wouldn't be ..

                As for why we are here, part of it would be becasue we are supportive and interested in their passion or what they are trying to achieve And the other part is because we can see that the males on the forum can benefit from our female perspective on things...I also believe ultimately BW and I both like to help people find a healthy relationship with themselves and their bodies And we probably have enough experience with men in general (not just sexually) to know where male thinking can go wrong and we know if you put enough males together with out female influence the thinking can become detrimental or warped.

                AS far as it being like porn, i guess that would come down to the female .. but I am not here perving on penis and i suspect BW isn't either and I guess the males in our lives know our character and are also confident enough with themselves not to be threatened by us seeing other cock... adding to this is the content here, despite the photos being sometimes erect penis, its not delivered in a sexual context .. erections are a function of the penis and the environment that the erection is delivered in a non sexual in its agenda..
                ~ If.....
                ~ TTBB big-ginners program for JPopping boobies
                ~ Lust and Love


                “It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.”




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                • #9
                  Originally posted by CUSP82 View Post
                  They're on here because they're smart, fun, cute ( well I think maybe one or two are cute;the rest well you can have em) and they have great insight into the stupidity of men! Now if you asked the ladies WHY they are here, well the answer to that is obvious;me!
                  I did ask WHY. See below in blue.
                  Originally posted by isambard View Post
                  Funny! I have had the same burning question since I joined. I wondered why a woman would be on a site like this. I think its a very reasonable question to have in one's mind, and I'm surprised that you dont wish to answer it Batwoman. Its not as though he is asking for your stats, pictures of yourself, or address, or whether or not your husband/partner is on here too, or indeed for your phone number!
                  Originally posted by Katie View Post
                  I agree with Batwoman in the matter of only revealing what I feel comfortable with, and the wish for no speculation about who my boyfriend is.

                  He showed me this site. When he felt comfortable with telling me about the whole PE thing, he did.
                  I'm here to learn and to share my thoughts when people have questions about how girls think. When there are questions, I have to think about how i feel about the matter, and by doing that, I learn new things about myself.

                  I know this site is mainly about penis health and enlargement, but that doesn't interest me too much. The relationship and woman's perspective forums does.

                  And, there is actually one more thing that keeps me here, and that is the chance to practice writing in English, which I'm not really used to.
                  Nobody asked anyone who their boyfriend was, or even displayed any desire to speculate. But, thank you for answering the question in a general fashion. Any other ladies care to comment? After all, unless I am mistaken, a forum is a place for 'discussion' is it not?
                  Start: 26/06/10
                  BPEL = 6.5"
                  MEG = 5.75"
                  Current (24/10/10)
                  BPEL = 6.75"
                  MEG = 6"
                  Short term goal 8 x 6 :D
                  Ultimate goal 9 x 7 :eek:

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                  • #10
                    I just hope that CUSP does not leave the gym, we may be left with no ladies to talk to if he ever goes
                    Lets just enjoy having the women share a females perspective with us. Its entirely up to them whether they wish to let their partners know.
                    VIPER
                    Senior Member
                    Last edited by VIPER; 11-23-2010, 03:02 PM.
                    Starting stats : BPEL 6.25" NBPEL 5.6" EG 4.8"
                    Current stats : BPEL 7" NBPEL 6.25" EG 5"
                    Main Goal : BPEL 7.5" NBPEL 6.75" EG 5.5"

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                    • #11
                      Well just case you were ever wondering why they're here I gave you the answer;me! (lmao)
                      The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Katie View Post
                        I agree with Batwoman in the matter of only revealing what I feel comfortable with, and the wish for no speculation about who my boyfriend is.

                        He showed me this site. When he felt comfortable with telling me about the whole PE thing, he did.
                        I'm here to learn and to share my thoughts when people have questions about how girls think. When there are questions, I have to think about how i feel about the matter, and by doing that, I learn new things about myself.

                        I know this site is mainly about penis health and enlargement, but that doesn't interest me too much. The relationship and woman's perspective forums does.

                        And, there is actually one more thing that keeps me here, and that is the chance to practice writing in English, which I'm not really used to.
                        Obviously your partner knows your involvement in this site (hell, he brought you here). Exploring this site together with your man must be enjoyable.

                        I think you have a wonderful relationship

                        However, if my girl went on such site without I knowing, I probably would feel uncomfortable.

                        The OP's example of vagina site is a perfect example
                        AP90 member.

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                        • #13
                          MWP: We do have a wonderful relationship, and being a part of his interest in PE makes it even better

                          Isambard: Yes, I know no one asked about who the women here are together with in this thread, but it happens elsewhere, and I find it a little bit annoying to be asked...

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                          • #14
                            The thing is guys do ask .. i have been asked many many times who my friend is. so though you didn't ask, when we talk about the relationships it stirs up the question.
                            ~ If.....
                            ~ TTBB big-ginners program for JPopping boobies
                            ~ Lust and Love


                            “It is so hard to leave—until you leave. And then it is the easiest goddamned thing in the world.”




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                            • #15
                              Thanks TTBB. I see your point-to a point... But to say 'y'all' in respect to us picturing the sex or who you are involved with is a bit over the top and tarring everyone with the same brush. After all, I dont think many of us are here for titilation purposes, there are plenty of porn sites for that, I'm sure. Personally, I dont care what you or any person male or female on this site (or in the world in general) get up to. It certainly does nothing for me, I prefer the real thing with MY partner.

                              I think you ladies who have responded so far seem to have taken the question completely the wrong way and are not only overreacting, but are being over-defensive also. That is just my opinion, so please dont take offence. That of course is your prerogative to respond (or not) how you like, much like it is mine and itguy's prerogative to ask the question. Speaking for myself it was a simple question that came from a non-motivated, ABSOLUTELY no-ulterior-motive-whatsoever curiosity thats all.

                              I know why the men are here, just wondered why the women are here, thats all! Dont worry about answering it further, I've lost interest already.
                              Start: 26/06/10
                              BPEL = 6.5"
                              MEG = 5.75"
                              Current (24/10/10)
                              BPEL = 6.75"
                              MEG = 6"
                              Short term goal 8 x 6 :D
                              Ultimate goal 9 x 7 :eek:

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