Hey this is for females or males to answer. But i thought it might help to get a female point of view. I'm 19. So here's the problem.
I met this girl about a month ago(she's 17 turning 18), she was a virgin when i met her and hadn't done anything sexually with another person or by herself. When i met her she was really shy around me. She told me that she was only shy around me and everyone else was fine(in other words she liked me). So that night we hooked up that night at her place but her family was very religious and made us leave the door open.. which i thought was pretty funny. But i always had to be the one to kiss her, and she would constantly be shy and close her eyes tight and turn her head awake, making it pretty difficult to kiss. I thought, okay cool she's just shy, she'll get use to me.
The next few times we hung out we started having sex, we've probably had sex 20 times or more, but this didn't change the fact that she still today is very shy and hides her head in the pillow or turns away when i look at her for more than 3 seconds. I seem to be doing all the work, and i mean everything, every time, as she still hasn't touched me once, not even slightly, regardless of me dragging her hand down there. So i always have to be the one to make sure im hard enough to slide in, which usually means pulling my dick up and down on top of being turned on. So I have to initiate everything while she lays there, and she makes me make every decision for the position etc.
When i'm with her she'll want to have sex with me whenever I want. But she will never say so she will just wait for me to make all the moves while she does little to nothing to contribute. Every time i ask her something such as "what does that feel like", "what do you want to do", "what's wrong", "do you want me to do this", "do you want me to keep going" etc she answers back with "I duno" EVERY SINGLE TIME. And won't say a single thing as she just lays there except "i duno".
When i ask her if it feels good she does say "yeah". But that's all i get out of her... the rest is "i duno". I know it's because she's shy..
Another thing when i'm rubbing her clit, she will respond well by gasping and moaning a bit, but if i keep rubbing it for more than 25 seconds or so she'll ALWAYS grab my hand and move it away. And then i ask "doesn't it feel good?" and she'll say "yeah", Me: "why did you move my hand away?" her: "i duno".
Also i would just like to mention that people agree i'm a very easy person to open up to one on one, and I seem very trust worthy. But she just doesn't tell me anything. She will just lie to my face and say "i duno" to questions that clearly have an answer in her head that shes un willing to give me.
P.S. Don't say get her drunk and ask her, that's not a long term solution..
I met this girl about a month ago(she's 17 turning 18), she was a virgin when i met her and hadn't done anything sexually with another person or by herself. When i met her she was really shy around me. She told me that she was only shy around me and everyone else was fine(in other words she liked me). So that night we hooked up that night at her place but her family was very religious and made us leave the door open.. which i thought was pretty funny. But i always had to be the one to kiss her, and she would constantly be shy and close her eyes tight and turn her head awake, making it pretty difficult to kiss. I thought, okay cool she's just shy, she'll get use to me.
The next few times we hung out we started having sex, we've probably had sex 20 times or more, but this didn't change the fact that she still today is very shy and hides her head in the pillow or turns away when i look at her for more than 3 seconds. I seem to be doing all the work, and i mean everything, every time, as she still hasn't touched me once, not even slightly, regardless of me dragging her hand down there. So i always have to be the one to make sure im hard enough to slide in, which usually means pulling my dick up and down on top of being turned on. So I have to initiate everything while she lays there, and she makes me make every decision for the position etc.
When i'm with her she'll want to have sex with me whenever I want. But she will never say so she will just wait for me to make all the moves while she does little to nothing to contribute. Every time i ask her something such as "what does that feel like", "what do you want to do", "what's wrong", "do you want me to do this", "do you want me to keep going" etc she answers back with "I duno" EVERY SINGLE TIME. And won't say a single thing as she just lays there except "i duno".
When i ask her if it feels good she does say "yeah". But that's all i get out of her... the rest is "i duno". I know it's because she's shy..
Another thing when i'm rubbing her clit, she will respond well by gasping and moaning a bit, but if i keep rubbing it for more than 25 seconds or so she'll ALWAYS grab my hand and move it away. And then i ask "doesn't it feel good?" and she'll say "yeah", Me: "why did you move my hand away?" her: "i duno".
Also i would just like to mention that people agree i'm a very easy person to open up to one on one, and I seem very trust worthy. But she just doesn't tell me anything. She will just lie to my face and say "i duno" to questions that clearly have an answer in her head that shes un willing to give me.
P.S. Don't say get her drunk and ask her, that's not a long term solution..
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