This has been beaten to death, but...

[7.5x5.5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7.5x5.5]

Okay, so I know that every girl is different, just as every guy is different. With that in mind, what would be an ideal penis size for women in the REAL WORLD, not just people on the forums who want a third leg. I feel like what has been decided as an ideal size, or even the magical size, is sometimes tarnished by the mentality of "we all need to be enormous" on the board. Don't get me wrong, I want to have a monster, but i also want to be able to have sex and not be told that i'm to big. Im currently shooting for 7-7.5x5.75-6. Would love some input, but want to know what everyone thinks with the whole "real world" thing in mind.

[NP97 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close NP97]

Well, in the real world most guys are arouned 5.6-5.8" long and 4.7-4.9" thick.
So, anything an inch above for length would be long, and even a half inch above with girth would be thick.
Go from there.

[7.5x5.5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7.5x5.5]

Well, in the real world most guys are arouned 5.6-5.8" long and 4.7-4.9" thick.
So, anything an inch above for length would be long, and even a half inch above with girth would be thick.
Go from there.

Hm, alright. So what do you think would be considered a "monster" to the majority of women out there?

[searcher Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close searcher]

does this mean size around length 6.5 and girth above 5.5 is above average? i thought that was the average. sorry if this is the wrong place to ask.

[7.5x5.5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7.5x5.5]

does this mean size around length 6.5 and girth above 5.5 is above average? i thought that was the average. sorry if this is the wrong place to ask.

Thats the thing. I think that there is a separation of real world average and pegym.com average that isn't really separated or discussed much within the forum. I would love to try and get more information on this type of stuff.

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Average to a guy is different to average to a girl. I've learned this on here. We have a good few members here who were 7" in length before starting PE but thought they were average. I think if you were to give a generous round figure of what the average penis is, it would be 6x5. I would imagine that this would be a rounded up figure rather than rounded down.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

I want one that fits me.
So for me 6.25 length and 5 girth. Hard erection would be great lol

Over that is for viewing pleasure and slamming the cervix. The slam causes a three day recovery time usually. So since I am a daily or every other day I control the depth with my body muscles.

My ex, now that I know about penis sizes and the measurement of my hand, was probably 6.5 by 5.25
Perfect. We had great sex for 25 years. I loved his peen.
I sucked him every chance I got seriously.
He / we were great lovers.

I didn't find out about bigger until we split up (he was my first)
And bigger is not better. I haven't "made love" in years. Sex is good, great. But I miss making love

Edit: monster question. I think your body has a lot to do as your peen's display case.
The FWB I have is very slim, fit, 6'5 and has a monster length wise. I'm not sure about girth being a monster in your eyes but it's big enough for me.
At least for me I don't want to be scared or tense with a huge peen in my sights. The hope is the man no matter his size knows how to use it. Not go all porn. I want to feel good, satisfied, pleasured etc
Some guys no matter their size don't take into account our vaginas are very sensitive.

Searcher: I agree at least from my girlfriends average is 6x5

[7.5x5.5 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close 7.5x5.5]

I want one that fits me.
So for me 6.25 length and 5 girth. Hard erection would be great lol

Over that is for viewing pleasure and slamming the cervix. The slam causes a three day recovery time usually. So since I am a daily or every other day I control the depth with my body muscles.

My ex, now that I know about penis sizes and the measurement of my hand, was probably 6.5 by 5.25
Perfect. We had great sex for 25 years. I loved his peen.
I sucked him every chance I got seriously.
He / we were great lovers.

I didn't find out about bigger until we split up (he was my first)
And bigger is not better. I haven't "made love" in years. Sex is good, great. But I miss making love

Edit: monster question. I think your body has a lot to do as your peen's display case.
The FWB I have is very slim, fit, 6'5 and has a monster length wise. I'm not sure about girth being a monster in your eyes but it's big enough for me.
At least for me I don't want to be scared or tense with a huge peen in my sights. The hope is the man no matter his size knows how to use it. Not go all porn. I want to feel good, satisfied, pleasured etc
Some guys no matter their size don't take into account our vaginas are very sensitive.

Searcher: I agree at least from my girlfriends average is 6x5

Fantastic response, islander. This is the type of stuff I like reading about and getting perspective on. Im not going to lie, I would love to have a long (7.5-8), extremely girthy (6.25-6.5 )penis; however, I don't know how well that would carry over into actually having sex with women. I feel like there is a fine line between personal goal and legitimate "application", if you will, that is hard to grasp. Thoughts?

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7.5: Seriously if those are your stats I beg you to make sure you are good with your tool. Just as it is sensitive so is where it is going.
I am an older women to most of you guys on here so maybe the young girls want different things. But I was married for 25 years and yes we had sex, we had quickies ( a lot at my request), many times I wanted to give him oral to get me off and not have intercourse. Bottom line was I felt loved in every aspect. He never tried to porn me out (if you get what I mean)
Since being on this site I have a much better understanding on how porn can fuck with a guys mind. He see's whats going on and thinks that is what he needs to do. Total BS. Especially the order of porn. I dont want you jumping down on my clit the first two minutes. Get me wet first, play with my body, kiss me, carress me, etc... I dont know. If that is your size shit, you are big lol

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7.5: Seriously if those are your stats I beg you to make sure you are good with your tool. Just as it is sensitive so is where it is going.
I am an older women to most of you guys on here so maybe the young girls want different things. But I was married for 25 years and yes we had sex, we had quickies ( a lot at my request), many times I wanted to give him oral to get me off and not have intercourse. Bottom line was I felt loved in every aspect. He never tried to porn me out (if you get what I mean)
Since being on this site I have a much better understanding on how porn can fuck with a guys mind. He see's whats going on and thinks that is what he needs to do. Total BS. Especially the order of porn. I dont want you jumping down on my clit the first two minutes. Get me wet first, play with my body, kiss me, carress me, etc... I dont know. If that is your size shit, you are big lol

Well thats what im saying, those are stats I would love to have for myself, but i dont know how practical they would be. I just started PE about 3 weeks ago and am 5.5" long and 5.5" girth (started out with a very good girth size, apparently). So, as much as I would like he 7.5x6.5, i am not sure how it would "work" out in the real world.

[islander Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close islander]

7.5
It works bigger of course but you will have to be sure to make her feel certain you know how to use it.
Yea your girth is big! Your length is big but from what I read here y'all want it longer.
I didn't read your profile so I don't know anything about u.
Just become the best lover you can be, a real lover not just a fucker lol

[Southpaw Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Southpaw]

Just become the best lover you can be, a real lover not just a fucker lol

Wise words to live by. I'll remember that.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

does this mean size around length 6.5 and girth above 5.5 is above average? i thought that was the average. sorry if this is the wrong place to ask.

What you have going for you is the combination of your measurements. Many guys with 6.5 length are under 5 in girth as many with a girth of 5.5 are 6 inches or under in leangth. At 6.5x5.5 you shouldnt worry about dissapointing a lady with your size. I would say that you are bigger than the average man.

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7.5
It works bigger of course but you will have to be sure to make her feel certain you know how to use it.
Yea your girth is big! Your length is big but from what I read here y'all want it longer.
I didn't read your profile so I don't know anything about u.
Just become the best lover you can be, a real lover not just a fucker lol

Originally I wanted it longer and I still do. But my priorities have changed since learning about PE. My focus has been on girth for quite a while. I am 7.5" BPEL which I think is pretty good. But, because of my fat pad (over 1" thick), I am not satisfied with how it looks visually-so I'd like over 7" NBPEL. Plus, my girth is getting pretty good now (6.2" MSEG) so it looks too "stubby" now I think lol. But I'll take a good girth over a good length myself and I think my wife agrees (it's long enough, but the thickness is increasingly enjoyable).

And I agree, the #1 thing is to be a good lover, otherwise even the "perfect penis" is worthless.

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This is all really informative stuff. Anyone else have any input in the matter?