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Hi,
just putting my own experience out there in the flames of this never-ending and ever-inspiring debate about size.... I don't want to sound arrogant, pretentious or extra confident (besides we don't know who we are on here so it would all go to waste). With this in mind I'd love your take on this (gilrs too
) hoping the meaning of this will be clear and maybe I'll learn the moral of my own story.
I am overweight.
I'm balding.
I'm hairy.
I don't have a pretty looking face.
I am practically what all monthly publications + websites + polls + forums describe as a TOTAL FAIL.
I started having sex at 16. I actually started understanding what was going on with women around 20. So let's say the first 4 years were more like studying the subject from scratch.
I am now 36 and in 16 years (not counting the remote and useless first 4 years) I've had 2 long-term relationships with 2 splendid women that I loved (never cheated) and I've had the immense pleasure to share passionate instants with 220/240 ladies. Not a crazy high number but enough to get an idea. Include a few mmf threesomes and 4 ffm's
I've always picked a girl on the basis of a "feeling" I was getting regarding her soul. She had to feel good to be around. I've always refused obnoxious people and the same goes with women. I've personally always traded body traits for mind and personality. I dodn't think I was lucky. It just took longer to get laid. Of course I had to be physically attracted too. That's obvious.
I was always straight forward and never lied about feelings that were not there, never used drugs or alcohol to have sex, never done drugs during sex.
15% of them were considered "ok"
65% of them were considered "very pretty"
15% of them were considered "hot"
10% of them were considered "Very hot!
95% of them shared very similar opinions on life with me
Some of them came plenty of times...
Most of them came with penetration and/or oral...
Some of them were harder to bring to orgasm...
A few had a problem there...
For a handful of them "it was painful"
All these girls (with the exception of 2) always came back to get more of my loving. Just like I always wanted more form them. My average 1-night stand was 2-nights. I've never been dumped by a girl in my life and I'm sure it will hurt when it'll happen.
I can honestly say I have very good memories from all those beautiful moments. Some of these girls are still in contact after years and years and still wanting more.
It all looks fantastic from the eyes of a 36 year old man. But how does this look from the confused mind of a 6.5 Penis (5.5 NBPEL)?
I've been concerned about size from the day a girl in Paris said something along the lines of "I've felt your package when we were kissing and you're too small for me we cannot have sex" - FYI > we had sex and after 1hr of foreplay she grabbed my penis and literally said "I was wrong you have a great cock"... which made me laugh because even a kid knows that cannot be the case - we made love for hours and she came several times. All was good at the end. I was obviously enough.
I'm now here on PEGYM and looking to get the best of what I have, like all the rest I suppose. I know there's always longer and wider, I know that it takes forever. I think it's fun, I love the whole concept behind it.
What I need though is a moral to my story. Size does matter we all know. But does it really matter to women too? Just wondering.
Hope you have a great day. Happy gains to all.
just putting my own experience out there in the flames of this never-ending and ever-inspiring debate about size.... I don't want to sound arrogant, pretentious or extra confident (besides we don't know who we are on here so it would all go to waste). With this in mind I'd love your take on this (gilrs too
) hoping the meaning of this will be clear and maybe I'll learn the moral of my own story. I am overweight.
I'm balding.
I'm hairy.
I don't have a pretty looking face.
I am practically what all monthly publications + websites + polls + forums describe as a TOTAL FAIL.
I started having sex at 16. I actually started understanding what was going on with women around 20. So let's say the first 4 years were more like studying the subject from scratch.
I am now 36 and in 16 years (not counting the remote and useless first 4 years) I've had 2 long-term relationships with 2 splendid women that I loved (never cheated) and I've had the immense pleasure to share passionate instants with 220/240 ladies. Not a crazy high number but enough to get an idea. Include a few mmf threesomes and 4 ffm's
I've always picked a girl on the basis of a "feeling" I was getting regarding her soul. She had to feel good to be around. I've always refused obnoxious people and the same goes with women. I've personally always traded body traits for mind and personality. I dodn't think I was lucky. It just took longer to get laid. Of course I had to be physically attracted too. That's obvious.
I was always straight forward and never lied about feelings that were not there, never used drugs or alcohol to have sex, never done drugs during sex.
15% of them were considered "ok"
65% of them were considered "very pretty"
15% of them were considered "hot"
10% of them were considered "Very hot!
95% of them shared very similar opinions on life with me
Some of them came plenty of times...
Most of them came with penetration and/or oral...
Some of them were harder to bring to orgasm...
A few had a problem there...
For a handful of them "it was painful"
All these girls (with the exception of 2) always came back to get more of my loving. Just like I always wanted more form them. My average 1-night stand was 2-nights. I've never been dumped by a girl in my life and I'm sure it will hurt when it'll happen.
I can honestly say I have very good memories from all those beautiful moments. Some of these girls are still in contact after years and years and still wanting more.
It all looks fantastic from the eyes of a 36 year old man. But how does this look from the confused mind of a 6.5 Penis (5.5 NBPEL)?
I've been concerned about size from the day a girl in Paris said something along the lines of "I've felt your package when we were kissing and you're too small for me we cannot have sex" - FYI > we had sex and after 1hr of foreplay she grabbed my penis and literally said "I was wrong you have a great cock"... which made me laugh because even a kid knows that cannot be the case
- we made love for hours and she came several times. All was good at the end. I was obviously enough.I'm now here on PEGYM and looking to get the best of what I have, like all the rest I suppose. I know there's always longer and wider, I know that it takes forever. I think it's fun, I love the whole concept behind it.
What I need though is a moral to my story. Size does matter we all know. But does it really matter to women too? Just wondering.
Hope you have a great day. Happy gains to all.
) have not cared for my size. I was ~6" (BPEL) in 28 years. In my opinion men care more for size, regardless of women.
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