Some of I you know I will be getting married soon and that my fiancee is a virgin... SWEET... however, I have never been with a virgin... so, I am curious as to what I can do to maximize the pleasure for her when we do it for the first time. I am not sure what type of pain (if any) she may encounter during our time of... consummation ...and I just want to get a female perspective on what you would've IDEALLY want your first time to feel like, physically... im good already with the emotional stuff... lol
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Originally posted by Steve23 View Post- D.
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Yes! There are plenty of articles on how to handle a girl's first time! If not here then around the web!
Also if I might add, try and make it romantic and special for her! Light some candles, set the mood, maybe even get a little corny and sprinkle some rose pedals around the bed.
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Originally posted by mistydawn View PostWhat are your plans for the emotional?- D.
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Originally posted by JerzeeGuy View PostThats a great question that i never really sat down and thought about. But going off of general common sense (or what I perceive to be common), I guess it would be just knowing that this has been hold'n on to something she cherishes and has been saving for a special person, and that person being me and not taking that lightly. Plus being sensitive to fact that this may be a very emotional journey for her, during the actually act. But, like I said, I wasnt expecting to get called out on this lol so I guess I will give it some additional thought. I mean I still have a few months before we are Mr. & Mrs. and thats why I posted it in the Women's Perspective forum lol.Originally posted by JerzeeGuy View PostI am not sure what type of pain (if any) she may encounter during our time of... consummation ...and I just want to get a female perspective on what you would've IDEALLY want your first time to feel like, physically... im good already with the emotional stuff... lol
Do the things straight_shooter said.
You can try and make the her first time physically tolerable. If you have any kindness in you, use lube.
I feel so bad when I hear about women losing their virginity. If they go into it realistically I feel better, but these women that save themselves are looking at it romantically. This super special event waiting a lifetime for.
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Originally posted by mistydawn View PostYou haven't thought much about the emotional, even though you said you are "good already with the emotional stuff".
Do the things straight_shooter said.
You can try and make the her first time physically tolerable. If you have any kindness in you, use lube.
I feel so bad when I hear about women losing their virginity. If they go into it realistically I feel better, but these women that save themselves are looking at it romantically. This super special event waiting a lifetime for.
"If you have any kindness in you, use lube." - im not really a lube kinda guy, but I definitely appreciate that information.
Like I said, I am simply looking to make sure first time more "physically tolerable".- D.
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Originally posted by JerzeeGuy View Post
"If you have any kindness in you, use lube." - im not really a lube kinda guy, but I definitely appreciate that information.
Like I said, I am simply looking to make sure first time more "physically tolerable".
Doesn't sound like you are really wanting to make things better for her if you can't even use lube.
I am starting to wonder if guys come on here talking about taking a girls virginity because they actually are looking to make it tolerable for the woman, or just for responses to feed the fantasy of doing it. Everytime advice given to them they dismiss it. Just makes me think it really isn't about a sincere desire to make it better for the woman.Last edited by mistydawn; 09-11-2011, 09:39 AM.
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Originally posted by mistydawn View PostNot a lube kinda guy? Why would anyone be against lube. I don't get it.
Doesn't sound like you are really wanting to make things better for her if you can't even use lube.
I'm feeling worse for your girl.- D.
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Originally posted by JerzeeGuy View PostYo... you are taking everything I say and just NOT getting it... I said I am not a lube kinda guys because Ive NEVER used it. Maybe you didnt see where I put, "but I definitely appreciate that information" because I will take what you said inconsideration. Smh You can do me a favor and stop responding to this thread if you are just going to misconstrue everything I say.
It's really frustrating. Guys come on and ask for women's help and then don't take it our help seriously. We get blown off and even accused of lying!
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Originally posted by JerzeeGuy View PostYo... you are taking everything I say and just NOT getting it... I said I am not a lube kinda guys because Ive NEVER used it. Maybe you didnt see where I put, "but I definitely appreciate that information" because I will take what you said inconsideration. Smh You can do me a favor and stop responding to this thread if you are just going to misconstrue everything I say.
When/if she bleeds during her first time becasuse she's a virgin, you will wish you had lube when the blood drys both of you up during intercourse.
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