Do women's sexual preferences change over time?

**KungFuJoe** · 06-06-2012

Question for the ladies or any guys with long term relationships...

Have you ever had something you liked, sexually, when you were younger (certain position, being fingered, etc) that you eventually grew to not care if you ever did again? Me personally, anything I've enjoyed sexually from the time I was first sexually active, I still enjoy. And if I didn't really enjoy it much then, I still haven't changed my mind. And maybe it's just me. But has anyone found that their sexual preferences changed significantly over the years?

I want to clarify that this isn't about loss of libido. I'm talking your still as horny as ever...just some of things you liked or loved to do before just doesn't do it for you anymore.

**Islandboy916** · 06-06-2012

I think it does change for women and men over time. In the beginning its about the physical fulfillment. Over time as you mature and the relationship grows it begins to include the emotions in addition to the physical contact. As you two learn more and hopefully open up more to each other. You will find out more about each other and things that the you two perfer and will spend more time in those areas. So naturally there will be activities or positions you may not do as much

**NCGUY1972** · 06-06-2012

yes, my wife seems to like completely different things now or maybe she just replaces old styles? not sure

**ThomasJohnThomas** · 06-06-2012

Just like us...

**CUSP82** · 06-06-2012

You learn new things with time and they get to be your new favorites, until even newer favorites come along.

**GTO** · 06-06-2012

There are a few women in my office of whom I've had the pleasure of engaging in very lengthy and informative conversations on various topics of sex. To a woman, each one says that they enjoy sex a whole lot more now in their "old age" (they range between 45 and 55) than they ever did when they were younger. They say that they are much more in tune with their bodies, know exactly what they want, and can achieve orgasm much easier than they could when they were younger. I know it's not the case with all women (of course). And I was a bit surprised that they were more open to new things and had gotten "kinkier" as they've aged.

More closer to home, with my GF, she's said she's become much more emboldened in bed than she was when she was younger (she's 42). She's horny all the time and loves doing things now that she said she would have never done when younger, i.e. she loves doing/giving oral throughout the whole sex act, not just during foreplay. She's said she wasn't that thrilled about that in the past.