Hi,
I'm new here and something in particular has triggered me to register and begin 'working out'. Basically I am extremely competitive, I truly believe I have a condition, I simply have to be the best and anything less will drive me crazy. My girlfriend is the first, and only person I have had sex with, and she tells me I am amazing (my insecurity makes me doubt here, although I make her orgasm very easily). The thing is though, she is a few years older than me and has slept with a lot more people than me - this bothers me a lot. What bothers me a lot is she has squirted once in her life through penetration, which was 4/5 years ago. I am absolutely desperate to make her squirt during penetration, not for my ego but I am so desperate to be the best for her. This makes me sound like an asshole, I promise I'm not, but the thought of marrying her knowing one person made her squirt (and he fucked her only once) makes me feel so bad. The whole thing has made me feel really ill to be honest. I'm not a guy that uses women to increase ego, I promise I don't want to make her squirt to 'be an alpha male'. I'm just a 19 year old lad who loves his girlfriend loads. The guy who made her squirt was athletic and had a big dick (she says bigger than mine but she doesn't think by much).
She also squirted once through being fingered and once with her clit being played with, with what she says 'him playing with the entrance', they were the same person (the one through sex was different though). I made her squirt a few weeks ago which surprised her, her first squirt in about 4 years. The thing is though, the way I did it was totally against what guides say. I put three fingers in and pressed hard against the top of her vagina as I stroked it, she said it hurt but she still squirted, the other times it didn't.
So I've given you guys some background, now I have a few questions;
- How do you make a girl squirt through penetration
- I know about the G-Spot, is it important to hit the G-Spot to make her squirt
- Is a big dick important, I've seen a lot of people say deep fucking is key, but surely this doesn't really help the G-Spot
- How do you make her squirt playing with the clit and by fingering/any other techniques
- Any other advise you'd give to somebody who is really inexperienced when it comes to sex it terms of techniques, general info, absolutely anything. I am willing to listen and to learn, I want the tips of people far more experienced than me
Thank you so much everyone, the whole scenario has been driving me insane (borderline depression) and she is an amazing girl, which makes me feel even worse.
I'm new here and something in particular has triggered me to register and begin 'working out'. Basically I am extremely competitive, I truly believe I have a condition, I simply have to be the best and anything less will drive me crazy. My girlfriend is the first, and only person I have had sex with, and she tells me I am amazing (my insecurity makes me doubt here, although I make her orgasm very easily). The thing is though, she is a few years older than me and has slept with a lot more people than me - this bothers me a lot. What bothers me a lot is she has squirted once in her life through penetration, which was 4/5 years ago. I am absolutely desperate to make her squirt during penetration, not for my ego but I am so desperate to be the best for her. This makes me sound like an asshole, I promise I'm not, but the thought of marrying her knowing one person made her squirt (and he fucked her only once) makes me feel so bad. The whole thing has made me feel really ill to be honest. I'm not a guy that uses women to increase ego, I promise I don't want to make her squirt to 'be an alpha male'. I'm just a 19 year old lad who loves his girlfriend loads. The guy who made her squirt was athletic and had a big dick (she says bigger than mine but she doesn't think by much).
She also squirted once through being fingered and once with her clit being played with, with what she says 'him playing with the entrance', they were the same person (the one through sex was different though). I made her squirt a few weeks ago which surprised her, her first squirt in about 4 years. The thing is though, the way I did it was totally against what guides say. I put three fingers in and pressed hard against the top of her vagina as I stroked it, she said it hurt but she still squirted, the other times it didn't.
So I've given you guys some background, now I have a few questions;
- How do you make a girl squirt through penetration
- I know about the G-Spot, is it important to hit the G-Spot to make her squirt
- Is a big dick important, I've seen a lot of people say deep fucking is key, but surely this doesn't really help the G-Spot
- How do you make her squirt playing with the clit and by fingering/any other techniques
- Any other advise you'd give to somebody who is really inexperienced when it comes to sex it terms of techniques, general info, absolutely anything. I am willing to listen and to learn, I want the tips of people far more experienced than me
Thank you so much everyone, the whole scenario has been driving me insane (borderline depression) and she is an amazing girl, which makes me feel even worse.
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