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    I feel like learning to eat pussy well is an extremely valuable skill that any man would love to have in their arsenal. However it seems like most women don't want a guy going down on them that has no clue what they are doing. However, how else am I supposed to learn but through practice, but women don't want to give you practice. It's almost like a job you know?: no one wants to hire you to do a job without experience. I wish I could do a pussy eating internship.

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    My suggestion read and research then you can go do and at least you will have the theory down path. The Mr and I are always doing that, we are sexual enthusiasts and in our BDSM life style we like to experiment with things and that is how we do it. Research the heck out of it and then go forth and do. There is no reason to tell someone you are a novice, once you have the theory down go on and try all the techniques. Women like different things, sometimes depending on the mood some like you to lick the slit only, some like the clit tongued flat, while others prefer a hard tongue (Rolled) and some like to be tongued deeply in the core, while others prefer fingers at the core and tongue in the clit or folds.

    Just learn and then go do it. I swear that is how I learned to do fellatio and when I wanted to learn how to relax the throat muscles for deep throat, I researched and one of the suggestions was to practice on a dildo. So I did, Guess what it was a great surprise for the Mr. when I did it, since previously I could not get past the gag reflex.

    There are many good videos, books and articles about cunnilingus. Go to youtube and search How to eat pussy like a champ and then get the book She Comes First (you can borrow it from the library) then google more. Good luck and happy eating!
    ​Mrs. L4M
    BDSM Safe, Sane & Consensual
    Hubby's Routine

    BPEL 6.5 +1.5 ~>8.0 02/2013
    MEG. 4.7 +1.3 ~>6.0 03/2013

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    • #3
      Doubt if she'll deny just because you're a beginner. Lick and pay attention to what she likes. She'll let you know. After a while: tongue on clit, fingers in vagina. That'll ring her bell.

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      • #4
        "Licking sucks, and sucking rocks."

        My current FWB loves it when I go down on her. She says that if she lets the secret out that I'm so good at eating pussy, there'll be a line of women at my door. Then I watched the following video and found out why I was so good at it. I was already doing all those things!

        This is a link posted by another member of the PE Gym Forums.
        How to eat pussy like a champ | pornostars, various | Fantasti.cc

        Basically, I envision the female sex organs as counterparts to the male. Clitoris corresponds to the shaft & head, labia corresponds to the scrotum, G-spot corresponds to the prostate, vagina corresponds to... well, I don't think there's any corresponding part there. Think about what you like when a woman goes down on you: hard suction, delicate yet firm grip, slow controlled movements (instead of fast, flailing movements like you see in porn), etc... Think about what makes you cum. Then do that to her.
        Starting (3/14/2011) = 5" x 4"
        Current (7/16/2013) = 5.75" x 4.125"

        Short-Term Goal = BPEL 6"
        Long-Term Goal = 7.5" x 5.5"

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        • #5
          just a weird pointer. i'd have to say i'm decently experienced in this area... one weird thing i've noticed with my current girlfriend is that she cums a lot quicker when she is sitting on my face than when she is on her back. Second, every girl likes different pressures, speeds and spots... one way you can figure out without asking her is to put 1 finger in her pussy ( when wet of course) and then try different spots around her clit with different pressures and speeds. You'll know when you've found the right combo when her pussy contracts a bit on your finger, sometimes its subtle but its there. and keep doing that consistantly until she cums. Also its important NOT to go straight for her clit before other forplay and getting her super horny. tease her a bit with sucking on her nipples and making your way in and around her pussy. also, tell her that the taste of her pussy turns you on... cause girls are so in their fricking head all the time, let her know you like doing it.
          Start ~ March 2013: BPEL: 7" x 4.75
          May 2016: BPEL: 7.5 x 5.00

          Goal: First get to 8" BPEL and then work on girth as much as possible. Not too attached to the number but more with the journey.

          Foreplay begins at Hello.

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          • #6
            Get yourself on Xhamster and search for 'Nina Hartley Pro Licking Pussy'. Its a tutorial on cunnilingus and fingering a girl

            Originally posted by JohnnyAppleseed View Post
            I feel like learning to eat pussy well is an extremely valuable skill that any man would love to have in their arsenal. However it seems like most women don't want a guy going down on them that has no clue what they are doing. However, how else am I supposed to learn but through practice, but women don't want to give you practice. It's almost like a job you know?: no one wants to hire you to do a job without experience. I wish I could do a pussy eating internship.
            Mighty oaks from little acorns grow!
            Wolfemothers Progress Log

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            • #7
              Good video for the deep spot pussy eating/fingering technique: The Deep Spot - Video Dailymotion
              01/14/12 BPEL:7.4" EG:5.0"
              03/04/13
              BPEL:8.2" EG:5.5"BPFL:6.8 BPFSL:8.8"pics

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              • #8
                Originally posted by JohnnyAppleseed View Post
                I feel like learning to eat pussy well is an extremely valuable skill that any man would love to have in their arsenal. However it seems like most women don't want a guy going down on them that has no clue what they are doing. However, how else am I supposed to learn but through practice, but women don't want to give you practice. It's almost like a job you know?: no one wants to hire you to do a job without experience. I wish I could do a pussy eating internship.
                I have to ask, have you actually had negative reactions from women on the basis of your lack of experience? If you have then all I can recommend is that you say something along the lines of hey, no-one ever gets good at something without practice, how about telling me how I should do it?

                Feedback is all-important. If you enjoy eating pussy, listen and feel for the cues that you're doing it right and encourage her to tell you when you're doing it right (and when you aren't), I think you can't really go wrong. You just need a partner who is reasonable enough not to expect to be brilliant at it right from the start if you haven't done it loads before. I mean, it's hardly as if every woman is amazing at blowjobs the first time she ever gives one.

                Lots of guys here seem to be recommending videos...I dunno how helpful that is, I mean perhaps there are some very instructional and realistic videos out there but most of the time I've seen pussy-eating in porn videos, it's laughably unrealistic: the guy is going at it like a rabid dog, ramming his fingers inside her like he's trying to dislodge a stuck coin and she's having "orgasms" all over the place within about 30 seconds. Umm, yeah, whatever. In reality, you'll probably find that most women appreciate a 'less is more' approach: lots and lots of very gentle, light licking, focusing mainly on her clit but also running your tongue lightly up and down her lips - don't concentrate on literally sticking it in her pussy but do it once in a while, it'll be a pleasant surprise. Most women love having their arseholes licked too, providing they can admit to themselves that they're that 'dirty' (which, to be honest, is a lot of the appeal in the first place). I often get so into it I just end up rubbing her pussy all over my face, which she fucking loves too, and don't forget to occasionally break away to move up and kiss her; it may sound like a porno cliché but women do get hugely turned on by the smell and taste of their own juices on a guy.

                Oh yeah, and a finger or two in her pussy at the time is a great idea. Again, if she's into it, another fingertip in her arsehole can take it to a whole other level. I think simultaneous vaginal/clitoral/anal stimulation is pretty much the key to those holy-grail, this-is-so-amazing-I-might-be-about-to-die-but-I-don't-care female orgasms.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by MrsLooking4more View Post
                  My suggestion read and research then you can go do and at least you will have the theory down path. The Mr and I are always doing that, we are sexual enthusiasts and in our BDSM life style we like to experiment with things and that is how we do it. Research the heck out of it and then go forth and do. There is no reason to tell someone you are a novice, once you have the theory down go on and try all the techniques. Women like different things, sometimes depending on the mood some like you to lick the slit only, some like the clit tongued flat, while others prefer a hard tongue (Rolled) and some like to be tongued deeply in the core, while others prefer fingers at the core and tongue in the clit or folds.

                  Just learn and then go do it. I swear that is how I learned to do fellatio and when I wanted to learn how to relax the throat muscles for deep throat, I researched and one of the suggestions was to practice on a dildo. So I did, Guess what it was a great surprise for the Mr. when I did it, since previously I could not get past the gag reflex.

                  There are many good videos, books and articles about cunnilingus. Go to youtube and search How to eat pussy like a champ and then get the book She Comes First (you can borrow it from the library) then google more. Good luck and happy eating!
                  Can you recommend me some good sources?

                  Originally posted by tanaka View Post
                  Doubt if she'll deny just because you're a beginner. Lick and pay attention to what she likes. She'll let you know. After a while: tongue on clit, fingers in vagina. That'll ring her bell.
                  True. It seems like most women are just happy to have a man that cares enough to eat pussy in the first place. I've heard that men that like to eat pussy are rare.

                  Originally posted by Qarzan View Post
                  "Licking sucks, and sucking rocks."

                  My current FWB loves it when I go down on her. She says that if she lets the secret out that I'm so good at eating pussy, there'll be a line of women at my door. Then I watched the following video and found out why I was so good at it. I was already doing all those things!

                  This is a link posted by another member of the PE Gym Forums.
                  How to eat pussy like a champ | pornostars, various | Fantasti.cc

                  Basically, I envision the female sex organs as counterparts to the male. Clitoris corresponds to the shaft & head, labia corresponds to the scrotum, G-spot corresponds to the prostate, vagina corresponds to... well, I don't think there's any corresponding part there. Think about what you like when a woman goes down on you: hard suction, delicate yet firm grip, slow controlled movements (instead of fast, flailing movements like you see in porn), etc... Think about what makes you cum. Then do that to her.
                  I saw that video previously. I liked it. It taught me a lot.

                  Originally posted by Dangs7 View Post
                  just a weird pointer. i'd have to say i'm decently experienced in this area... one weird thing i've noticed with my current girlfriend is that she cums a lot quicker when she is sitting on my face than when she is on her back. Second, every girl likes different pressures, speeds and spots... one way you can figure out without asking her is to put 1 finger in her pussy ( when wet of course) and then try different spots around her clit with different pressures and speeds. You'll know when you've found the right combo when her pussy contracts a bit on your finger, sometimes its subtle but its there. and keep doing that consistantly until she cums. Also its important NOT to go straight for her clit before other forplay and getting her super horny. tease her a bit with sucking on her nipples and making your way in and around her pussy. also, tell her that the taste of her pussy turns you on... cause girls are so in their fricking head all the time, let her know you like doing it.
                  Thanks for the tips

                  Originally posted by wolfemother View Post
                  Get yourself on Xhamster and search for 'Nina Hartley Pro Licking Pussy'. Its a tutorial on cunnilingus and fingering a girl
                  I will check those out.

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                  • #10
                    JohnnyAppleseed The bottom part had the how to. You already watched the video now read the book and google search.
                    There are many good videos, books and articles about cunnilingus. Go to youtube and search How to eat pussy like a champ and then get the book She Comes First (you can borrow it from the library) then google more. Good luck and happy eating!

                    ​Mrs. L4M
                    BDSM Safe, Sane & Consensual
                    Hubby's Routine

                    BPEL 6.5 +1.5 ~>8.0 02/2013
                    MEG. 4.7 +1.3 ~>6.0 03/2013

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by JohnnyAppleseed View Post
                      I feel like learning to eat pussy well is an extremely valuable skill that any man would love to have in their arsenal. However it seems like most women don't want a guy going down on them that has no clue what they are doing. However, how else am I supposed to learn but through practice, but women don't want to give you practice. It's almost like a job you know?: no one wants to hire you to do a job without experience. I wish I could do a pussy eating internship.
                      To be honest with you, I gained ALOT of my pussy eating skills from watching porn...........not advocating you follow this learning method but it taught me ALOT over the years and now I've got a gf who goes absolutely CRAZY when I eat her pussy out..........I mean, so crazy that she ends up smashing my face into her pussy with her leg because she's having one orgasm after another.......it also helps that she has a very sensitive clit too.......
                      It's a tough job being good looking and hung :-)

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                      • #12
                        I have been kicked and headlocked....
                        Cause I'm TNT, I'm Dynamite :boxing::aikido:

                        Got nine lives...used six already!! :angel:

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                        • #13
                          Don't do any research at all just go down and experiment it's really something you need to learn through experience its not like the girl is going to stop you and ask if you're experienced or kick you off after 5 secs if she's not having an orgasm. you can always do things like have them put their hand on your head and guide you some if you want though you can also directly ask a girl to tell you how she likes it or rather to just give you alot of feedback, this doesn't make you look like you are clueless it just makes it look like you want to figure out what she specifically likes which makes sense because there is alot of variation from one girl to the next (which is why most sex advice is bs)

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                          • #14
                            I can show you the way of the female orgasm... LOL I need to make a damn how to video
                            smaLLer than beFore :(

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by camaro View Post
                              I have been kicked and headlocked....
                              I was in a headlock last night... damn ear popped LMAO...
                              smaLLer than beFore :(

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