Can't finish...do Women get frustrated?

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

As I recently posted I was fooling around with this girl and I've been getting blow jobs and hand jobs and they feel really good but, WHY CAN'T I FINISH and do females get mad if they can't make a guy finish?

[Frog Senior Member Member of the Month March 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close Frog]

As I recently posted I was fooling around with this girl and I've been getting blow jobs and hand jobs and they feel really good but, WHY CAN'T I FINISH and do females get mad if they can't make a guy finish?

Mad.....No Sad....yes. How many hand jobs/blow jobs has she given? Does she know how to work it? You have had 18 years to perfect your own hand job and maybe blow job if you removed a rib and are very flexible. heh heh....Anyway, help her help you! I figured I'm not doing right if I cant get a guy to cum. Unless your thinking about playing video games or watching football while she's doing it.

[draggin Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close draggin]

YES girls hate it if a man cannot finish in a timely manner. I used to suffer with DE. My wife got so fed-up she stopped wanting to have sex with me. We talk openly about sex, and she just said - flat out - that according to her and her girlfriends, 20 minutes is the ideal time. Ofcourse there are exceptions, but anything longer than 20 minutes turns from enjoying it to just enduring it.

The secret is to increase your penis' sensitivity. If your penis is sensitive it will get hard very easily, frequently, and cum quickly (unless you hold it back).

How do you get your dick sensitive? 3 things ... 1) Regenerate your foreskin (if you are cut), 2) stop looking at porn, and 3) try to stop jerking off (but if you have to jerk it, don't touch the head of your penis. Keep that part sensitive for a nice soft slick pussy).

Do those few things for a few months, and you'll be amazed. Good luck.

[Thenewguy2 Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Thenewguy2]

I beat you come if you *fuck* here nonstop for x minutes

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

Mad.....No Sad....yes. How many hand jobs/blow jobs has she given? Does she know how to work it? You have had 18 years to perfect your own hand job and maybe blow job if you removed a rib and are very flexible. heh heh....Anyway, help her help you! I figured I'm not doing right if I cant get a guy to cum. Unless your thinking about playing video games or watching football while she's doing it.

I would say she's given me 4 blow jobs and 3 hand jobs and there good no complaints here lol she leaves me one very happy guy lol. I tell her to focus on my balls more she does a good job touching the tip and I'm not thinking of anything besides how good it feels. I'm not holding anything back I just want to finish already I'm even getting mad I'm like why can't I finish with her and I'm attracted to her.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

YES girls hate it if a man cannot finish in a timely manner. I used to suffer with DE. My wife got so fed-up she stopped wanting to have sex with me. We talk openly about sex, and she just said - flat out - that according to her and her girlfriends, 20 minutes is the ideal time. Ofcourse there are exceptions, but anything longer than 20 minutes turns from enjoying it to just enduring it.

The secret is to increase your penis' sensitivity. If your penis is sensitive it will get hard very easily, frequently, and cum quickly (unless you hold it back).

How do you get your dick sensitive? 3 things ... 1) Regenerate your foreskin (if you are cut), 2) stop looking at porn, and 3) try to stop jerking off (but if you have to jerk it, don't touch the head of your penis. Keep that part sensitive for a nice soft slick pussy).

Do those few things for a few months, and you'll be amazed. Good luck.

I would say she sucks my dick for about 20 minutes and I still can't finish and I'm very sensitive I can get hard quick she even said it and I can keep it up for a long period of time but, I want to finish lol. Thanks I'll follow steps 2 and 3 and I'll let you know how it goes.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

As I recently posted I was fooling around with this girl and I've been getting blow jobs and hand jobs and they feel really good but, WHY CAN'T I FINISH and do females get mad if they can't make a guy finish?

I've been having the same problem the past week. The problem isn't DE; the problem is technique. Basically you're accustomed to yourself, and the way you masturbate. Stop masturbating, and let her take care of your sex drive, always. Eventually your brain will reprogram itself to work for your and her benefit. You could also show her how YOU rub one out, and that should help.

[TehDBare Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TehDBare]

I was the same way, oral and manual feel fantastic but just don't get me over the edge easily. I know my lady took it to heart, makes her feel insecure a little bit, but the biggest problem is that she was doing it because she wants to give me an orgasm and is frustrated when she can't. It kind of becomes counter productive because I then start thinking that I want to come to please her, and those thoughts are a sure fire way of distracting me enough to guarantee I won't come. So we talked about it and decided to just take some time where we casually explored a bit, not for pleasure but to learn (just as you should take the time to explore her body and learn). She now knows my trigger spots and the rhythm that works for me (to be honest I never had anyone who did it enough with me to figure it out for myself so I learned just as much as she did). So as with anything in a good relationship you need to communicate. Talk and explore, work together to figure it out.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I've been having the same problem the past week. The problem isn't DE; the problem is technique. Basically you're accustomed to yourself, and the way you masturbate. Stop masturbating, and let her take care of your sex drive, always. Eventually your brain will reprogram itself to work for your and her benefit. You could also show her how YOU rub one out, and that should help.

She said the same thing she said i'm so used to jerking off that your the only one that can make yourself cum. Yea that's what I gotta start doing I'm going to lay off masturbating and every time i see her I'll see if I can get a blow job or hand job from her. Another question i have could it be because some times when I get a blow job I'm driving so maybe that can be the problem as well.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I was the same way, oral and manual feel fantastic but just don't get me over the edge easily. I know my lady took it to heart, makes her feel insecure a little bit, but the biggest problem is that she was doing it because she wants to give me an orgasm and is frustrated when she can't. It kind of becomes counter productive because I then start thinking that I want to come to please her, and those thoughts are a sure fire way of distracting me enough to guarantee I won't come. So we talked about it and decided to just take some time where we casually explored a bit, not for pleasure but to learn (just as you should take the time to explore her body and learn). She now knows my trigger spots and the rhythm that works for me (to be honest I never had anyone who did it enough with me to figure it out for myself so I learned just as much as she did). So as with anything in a good relationship you need to communicate. Talk and explore, work together to figure it out.

I did the whole thinking thing as well I kept thinking ok it's time to finish already let's go and it ruined it for me. I really don't say much because everything she does feels really good so i don't stop her. I'm not going to say relationship it's just fooling around but, if something comes up I wouldn't mind going out with her.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

They don't necessarily get mad but can feel as if they are not arousing enough for you which can make them feel inadequate in pleasing you in certain ways.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

I always tell her it's amazing I never complained lol so she shouldn't feel like she's not doing a good job.

[thenewdude Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close thenewdude]

She knows you like it but just like when you want to get your woman to cum and she does, doesn't it make you feel a little disappointed like it was your performance? Women feel that why too especially with the man they love.

[Vikingman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Vikingman]

She knows you like it but just like when you want to get your woman to cum and she does, doesn't it make you feel a little disappointed like it was your performance? Women feel that why too especially with the man they love.

Here's the thing were just fooling around there's no feelings involved at all. I mean hell if she wanted to go out with me I would make her my gf real quick but, as of right now I don't see it.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Another question i have could it be because some times when I get a blow job I'm driving so maybe that can be the problem as well.

lol