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One question for the ladies. How do I convince my wife into trying squirting? She is just not interested and I really want her to give it a try. I read that it is intensely pleasurable and I want her to experience the feeling.
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I did not talk to my wife about it. I just tried to make her do it and she did it after awhile. She should let you do whatever if she is getting off on what you are doing.
My wife squirted when I had her legs over my shoulders and just kept going and did not stop working it. It took at least 20 minutes and she squirmed like hell, but when it hit me in the chest I felt like the man.
She laid in the same spot for a long time just panting. Clearly our relationship hit a new level that night.PE is a lot like sex. First you have to find your technique, rotate your routine, and then plan on it taking a while. Then you will find satisfaction. -
Promise her you'll cleanup the place afterward. That should help. I think!The world's still a toy if you just stay a boy!Comment
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Man, you gotta realize that not every single woman can squirt, and those women in the porn movies are not typical. Most women will just get very wet if you rub them the right way, some will squirt a little but it won't be very noticeable, and a very few will gush or squirt.
I downloaded a pretty good video course on this a few weeks ago from TPB. I think it was the two girls teach sex squirting course or something. Everything in it seems to sync up with what I've experienced and what my best friend (a squirter) has said. It's pretty much you just get her relaxed and stimulate her around the g-spot (around the urethral sponge) and the clitoris at the same time and good things will happen.Sex is the great leveler, taste the great divider. - Pauline KaelComment
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She may be uncomfortable with her body or insecure, you need to help her feel comfortable in her own skin first, make her feel desired and appreciated, and gradually open up your sexual horizons.
It is possible that she is shy and is not comfortable with you seeing her squirting, or would prefer not to "squirt" all over the place especially with you watching, as stated before, some ladies have a problem with even orgasming with a partner, something about feeling vulnerable.
You need to help her, but gradually and gently, you know your wife better than any of us.
With the experimental approach, like, "hey I heard that if I did so and so to your so and so you will feel so and so lets check it out", that may turn her off, so build up for it, and still, help her to know the facts.
The following posts are relevant, even though not directed at your case, but they shed light on why ladies may refrain from sex at times, that may apply to a certain degree to how your wife may feel.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/relatio...tml#post794136
https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/654...tml#post794741
My $0.02Last edited by MrB8; 01-07-2014, 02:29 PM.A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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Give her a few drinks put a few towels don on the bed and have at it! I talked my wife through it she wanted to hold back when she was swollen and nearly pushing me out and I just told her not to hold back let it go. Its more rewarding for the man I beleive she says its like a big build up to nothing upon release but the reward is all over your stomach and running between your legs! lolComment
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Well I'm just going to subscribe to this one as I will need it later.
See ya. Hope we get some good replies here, op
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I think the best way to do it is to let her know that we will be doing it for fun.
I need help in the technique. I should rub the inside of her vaginaand her clits at the same time?
Once i have rubbed the inside of her vagina and she felt that it was very pleasurable. She said that she felt that she wants to pee. Did i hit the jackpot? If so what should we do from that point?Comment
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If she got the urge to pee then you are doing it right.
A real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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So i should keep on rubbing on the same spot and she will squirt?Comment
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I think in all honesty less than 5% of women will ever squirt, I know on many forums all the women jump in and say they are squirters and most of the guys say the have made many women squirt. I chalk most of it up to bull shit.
I would be more than willing to put down a thousand bucks that at least half of the squirting in porn movies is fake as hell and is most of the time a well timed piss on the part of the porn star.
I would think it would be neat if it happened but to be honest I am not about to invest an ass load of time into trying to make the old lady a geyser unless she expressed an interest in it.
I would bet that if we had a poll on how many guys made their lady squirt it would say that 70% have accomplished it and even then I am calling bullshit.
Squirting can happen, squirting is very rare and squirting is mostly in porn.Last edited by BigO; 01-07-2014, 04:29 PM.Going an inch and 1/2 deeper than beforeComment
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https://www.pegym.com/forums/womans-...43-g-spot.htmlOriginally posted by walidfk View PostA real man never hurts a woman. The woman came out of a man’s rib, not from his feet to be walked on, and not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. - Mrs. workin_4_itComment
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I am one of the coveted 5% BigO was talking about, and quite honestly, it's not that amazing. I've talked about it before...I make a mess, it wears me out, and it's not that pleasurable. I've stated it's like having a dud orgasm. The build up is quite wonderful, and then, oh yeah, oh yeah, a big ole NOTHING. Give me a normal amazing orgasm any time or day.Originally posted by walidfk View Post
Think of smelling the most wonderful food in the world. You can't help but feel comfort, and all these great memories flood into your brain, and you just go towards the scent. Your mouth is watering as you envision your mouth devouring the precious morsels. You can't believe it, oh, it's in sight. You stand in line to purchase your piece of heaven, tears well up in your eyes as your hand delivers it closer and closer to your awaiting canines.
...........It tastes like cardboard. The smell was devious and alluring and you're left standing there in complete disappointment.
Squirting is sort of like that. For me at least, lol.Be a reflection of what you'd like to see in others.
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I've only had one girl squirt in my 10 year sex life, and it was only one time so far. It happened a few weeks ago actually. I tried it again the week after but could not get her to squirt again. It was a first for the both of us so it was exciting.
I started by giving her a clothed full body massage, and slowly worked down towards her butt and legs. I teased the hell out of her with my hands. After a few more mins of foreplay, kissing, and teasing I started to go down on her while fingering her with 2 fingers in the "come hither" motion. Rubbing her body with my free hand. I can feel she was building up to orgasm, so I started fingering her fast and hard, then suddenly I felt a flood coming out of her. From starting the massage to orgasm I think it took 15 mins. Like I said it was a first for both of us and I haven't duplicated it since. Making her orgasm while doing the come hither is my best guess. I'd just keep trying until it happens.Starting
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I am under the impression that you cannot make a woman squirt. It either happens or it doesn't. Funny story ... my wife never ever squirted. 12 years of marriage later, she is now a squirter. Not every time all the time, but pretty regular. I like it because I'm a guy so I think messy sex = great sex. I guess all I'm saying is you can try to make her squirt, and she can want to squirt, but either way, it isn't in her or your control."with great EQ, comes great responsibility"Comment
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