As simple as this question sounds, I've really been stumped on how women would prefer to be approached by a total stranger, in hopes to create a relationship with the lady. Ideally, talking to women a guy should show courtesy, respect, and concern; at least that's what I think.
I've seen many of men pick up women with cheesy pick up lines, flat out rude compliments, and other strange approaches. It's really weird how some of things actually even work, and I've had some of these guys tell me how they do it. One told me you have to have swag and be smooth with them, whatever that means, sounds like utter nonsense; and yet they end up with girls all the time. Another mentioned it's about self presentation, though his attire wasn't exactly "classy" or "formal" looking(baggy pants below the waist, long t-shirt, with one of those big hats that seem to be popular). I always dress like going to a job interview; collared shirt tucked in with slacks and dress-like shoes.
Do I come off as a creep or something?Maybe it's this young generation I'm stuck in, being 22 and all, maybe girls like the " bad boy" attitude and look now? Don't know, and that's why I'm asking for the more experienced women out to give me their thoughts and advice.
Please and thank you.
I've seen many of men pick up women with cheesy pick up lines, flat out rude compliments, and other strange approaches. It's really weird how some of things actually even work, and I've had some of these guys tell me how they do it. One told me you have to have swag and be smooth with them, whatever that means, sounds like utter nonsense; and yet they end up with girls all the time. Another mentioned it's about self presentation, though his attire wasn't exactly "classy" or "formal" looking(baggy pants below the waist, long t-shirt, with one of those big hats that seem to be popular). I always dress like going to a job interview; collared shirt tucked in with slacks and dress-like shoes.
Do I come off as a creep or something?Maybe it's this young generation I'm stuck in, being 22 and all, maybe girls like the " bad boy" attitude and look now? Don't know, and that's why I'm asking for the more experienced women out to give me their thoughts and advice.
Please and thank you.
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