If vagina size was measurable

[chemicalagent420 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chemicalagent420]

Ok. I had a epiphany. Guys catch flack from time to time from obsessing over penis shapr and size and being overly concerned (rightly so) with our sex organs, but it occured to me that women are far more concerned with body stats and if the smallness of vagina size was very easily measured I believe we would see a level of obsession us guys can only dream of. Women already spend a lot of time on bust size, hip size, waist size, eye lash size, hair volume, lip size. I actually consider women even more visual than men. You can tell this by watching a woman search to find matching drapes or the right couch. Women please consider that you are somewhat lucky to not know the actual size of your sex organs ♡♥♡♥♡. Id love to hear from men and women on this rant. What do you think? Am I spot on? Why or why not?

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I wouldn't touch this one for all the tea in China. Me thinks you're lucky that most of the women here are still sleeping. Oh I let them sleep late on Tuesdays.

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

I find it very easy to measure the size of a woman's vagina with my penis. So far, I haven't found one that didn't fit just right.

Vaginal toning exercises, labiaplasty, even vaginal and anal bleaching, are subjects most women are probably aware of. I have little doubt that any woman hasn't had concerns about her own "tightness" or vaginal appearance at some time. Genital insecurity is surely not an issue men can claim a monopoly on. To some degree, we're all fucked up by society, and by our own views of what everyone else has down there.

[drfrankencock Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close drfrankencock]

Oh I let them sleep late on Tuesdays.

Poor thing. You must be starving by now.

[chemicalagent420 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chemicalagent420]

I don't think you could effectively measure the cavity, but you might be able to make a device that coule recognize pressure during a kegel squeeze. That would give an approximation of sorts. I can see it now, women bragging about scoring in the 95th percentile of the kegel squeeze tightness test.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

Back when I was on the old PE Forum there was a woman who talked a lot about women tightening their vaginas with exercises and equipment (apparently there is an insert which makes kegals more difficult, so a woman has to squeeze harder. She used to say "It is much easier for a woman to make her vagina tighter than it is for a man to make his penis bigger." So vagina size isn't as relevant as how tight a woman can make it.

[TPW Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close TPW]

Chemicalagent,

Considering that you are clearly "blissfully ignorant" about women being "blissfully ignorant" about the size of their genitals, allow me to provide you with a much needed reality check.

A great many women do indeed experience self-consciousness about their genitals. Not only are they concerned about the internal "tightness" and size, they worry about the look, smell and taste of their vaginas as well - to the point where many of them will refuse to have oral sex performed on them.

They are also not immune to what they see in porn nor are they exempt from hearing negative comments from lovers. Their genitals have also been the subject of many jokes and ridicule - both personally and in general.

Therefore, self-consciousness of the genitals is not gender-specific...it never was and it never will be until we each learn to truly accept the beauty of their inherent design and the pleasure they can provide.

[AlpineNewt Senior Member Member of the Month Sept 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close AlpineNewt]

Wouldn't be terrible luck if you spent years making your penis larger only to fall for a woman who'd spent years making her vagina tighter making sex impossible!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

I was going to chime in but TPW said it pretty much perfectly.

I will also add that I don't give a rats ass what the measurement of it is/would be. I care about what the experience with my partner is like. If he's enjoying it, and I'm enjoying it, then who cares what the stats are?

[chemicalagent420 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chemicalagent420]

Passionatewife. Point taken. the point of the thread is not to shame the vagina in anyway. I believe sexual shaming and name calling or using non scientific names for genitals to be very damaging. I am only pointing out that women are certainly in to measurements whether it be for dress size, cup size, body measurements. I am only pointing that because a mans genitals are easy to measure by nature adds an objectivity that if women had would cause an equal amount of fuss. I am just using this to invalidate the common argument that men worry about size to much misses the mark as it pertains to human beinga and general. I rescind the term "blissfully ignorant" but I will posit that ladies such as yourself dont represent the population at large in terms of sexual awareness. My wife only started doing kegels when she notices my improved erections and increased size. My wife is sexual forward compared to many women I have been with so I dont think it is a discussion point as much as you say in polite society.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

I think the whole point is that size really doesn't matter, or it shouldn't, for both sexes. My size, what I was and what I am now, never bothered me at all nor did I ever give it a thought.

[chemicalagent420 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chemicalagent420]

Also I think sexuality is under discussed and unfortunately women seem to undergo all of those issues you mentioned alone. I would posit that the ability to measure and improve vaginal grip strength would provide similar satisfaction in women as compares to mens PE. Womens lib all the way please.

[Sean Jacobs Retired Moderator Member of the Month Dec 2012PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Sean Jacobs]

to the point where many of them will refuse to have oral sex performed on them.

What a shame. Some women don't know what they are missing.

[Dick Whammy Retired Moderator Member of the month Jan 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Dick Whammy]

Chemicalagent,

Considering that you are clearly "blissfully ignorant" about women being "blissfully ignorant" about the size of their genitals, allow me to provide you with a much needed reality check.

A great many women do indeed experience self-consciousness about their genitals. Not only are they concerned about the internal "tightness" and size, they worry about the look, smell and taste of their vaginas as well - to the point where many of them will refuse to have oral sex performed on them.

They are also not immune to what they see in porn nor are they exempt from hearing negative comments from lovers. Their genitals have also been the subject of many jokes and ridicule - both personally and in general.

Therefore, self-consciousness of the genitals is not gender-specific...it never was and it never will be until we each learn to truly accept the beauty of their inherent design and the pleasure they can provide.

TPW,,,,,,,I wish you could send out a universal message to ALL women and ALL men.

The message would read something like this:

Forgive me if I speak bluntly.
The Universe grows smaller every day and the threat of genital size comparison by any
group -- anywhere -- can no longer be tolerated.

There must be security for all -- or no one is secure... This does not mean giving up any freedom except the freedom to act irresponsibly.

We of the other planets have long accepted this principle. We have an organization for the mutual protection of all men and women -- and for the complete elimination of size humiliation. A sort of United Nations of Penises and Vaginas on the Planetary level... The test of any such higher authority, of course, is the police force that supports it. For our policemen, we created a race of robots-- Their function is to patrol the planets -- in space ships like this one -- and preserve the peace. In matters of laughing and pointing we have given them absolute power over us.

At the first sign of genitalia size comparison they act automatically against the aggressor. And the penalty for provoking their action is too terrible to risk.

The result is that we live in peace, without fear of small dicks nor cavernous vaginas, secure in the knowledge that we are free from insecurity and pre-coital humiliation.

We do not pretend to have achieved perfection -- but we do have a system -- and it works.

I came here to give you the facts. It is of utmost concern how you run your mouth -- and if you threaten to extend your insecurities and silly remarks, your ass will be reduced to a burned-out cinder.

Your choice is simple. Join us and shut the hell up and live in peace. Or pursue your present
course -- and face genital obliteration. We will be waiting for your answer. The decision rests with you.

[chemicalagent420 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close chemicalagent420]

Thanks all for contributing to the thread. I think because sex dialogue isnt open enough there is little to dispel the damaging effect porn has. I think parents are also loathe to talk about what real sexuality is so that leaves poor kids to compare themselves to pornography. When my kids get older there is no way I am leaving them unarmed against a sea of pornography and sexual shaming. I reread your post again passionate wife. I couldnt agree more with what being a woman must feel like at times.