making out - do and don'ts

[_Jericho_]

i've been lurking around the forum and noticed that the ladies here hate answering on "is my penis big enough" or "is upwards curve is good or bad?" questions. so i was thinking of starting this thread - DO and DON'Ts on making out. what do you like or dont like? the answers could be anywhere from biting lips and tongue play techniques to groping body parts during the kiss.

[MrB8]

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[corageon]

I think it's highly individual and not to be generalized....

[SW_CO]

I think it's highly individual and not to be generalized....

True, and some replies from the female members here might help make the younger members more aware of that.

[TPW]

Hey SW_CO,

Could you clarify your question? Are you referring to strictly "making out" with no sexual intercourse involved or as a means of foreplay?

[_Jericho_]

Hey SW_CO,

Could you clarify your question? Are you referring to strictly "making out" with no sexual intercourse involved or as a means of foreplay?

answering on both situations could be great.

[islander]

Don't
Throat tongue dive
Lick her teeth
Not too soft or wide tongue
Hold head tight

Do
Kiss the face, outside of lips, slight suck on lips, lightly cup face in hands,
I like to softly suck tongue bj motion
Find your rhythm

Do it long time. Lol

Kissing is so hot. So intimate. So wonderful :-)

[longerlastingnoob]

Different to islander, my girl ( and me) likes a throat bashing, hard, sloppy, heads pressed together so tight we nearly merge into one person. But also sometimes like a soft, gentle touch, but that would usually turn in to the above.
Go neutral, don't sway towards one type or the other just wait for a sign, but not too long.

[Qandisa]

I'm also more for the rougher stuff so I like hard, forceful, passionate kissing. Tongue is great as long as it's active, don't just shove your tongue in there and... leave it. Yes I've had guys who did that, it was more than a little disconcerting. But I love it when partners grab my head, get hold of my hair, push me against things. Biting is great - doesn't need to be soft nibbling (which is fun too) but I've had more than a few bite marks and personally I think they're kinda hot. Just watching the tolerance levels on really sensitive areas. The only "too much" issue I've ever had with my main FWB was once when he grabbed hold of me and had been at my neck and then started biting my ear - I got to be a little too hard at one point and I remember thinking "oh hell no you are not going all Mike Tyson on me!" lol
(it didn't get to that point, it just was a little harder than I found pleasurable)

Do spend time on it - making out is fabulous foreplay and builds anticipation and excitement so don't rush through it too much!

Do learn to read your partner's reaction and notice what works best for them. Some people like slow and sensual, some rough and intense. What works for one won't necessarily work for another, and sometimes you'll find things that surprise you!

[AlpineNewt]

Any tips for kissing when you have an overbite? I find it hard work not too clash teeth, especially if she also has an overbite.