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    Hello.

    I wrote a detailed introduction, which you can click below. My girth is 4.9 - 5.1 normally, when I suffer from erection difficulties, 100% of the time, it goes down to 4.5.


    https://www.pegym.com/forums/introdu...tml#post980628


    As an aside, I apologize for my lack of writing skills. I hope I can get my points across in spite of this, by ALL means, send me a PM if you have any generic writing/formatting tips!

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    Girth matters to a proportion of women. I am with one! The truth can be harsh.
    I am dealing with a small girth, and I suspect my girls EX was of large girth - he was 120kg (overweight), 6ft 3, and her pussy is large, large enough for me to get my finger and penis inside her during sex. She has been sized by a larger man.


    There are alot of things you can do in the sack. I'm going to share what I've learned, and I encourage others to do the same! It is workable, and we can increase our girth in the meantime - it's a temporary problem at best.





    Mental aspects:
    Big dick mentality


    More important (almost ) than a big dick, is a big dick mentality! First up:


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    Never under any circumstances let her know you are insecure about your penis size!
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    Have you got that? Do I need to repeat myself?
    No, great! Read on...


    I say this so dogmatically, because confidence is sexy. More importantly, because she will mirror your insecurities, and women feel insecurity much more acutely. More on this later.


    This doesn't mean you can't express a desire for a larger one, or share your PE journey with her: I think you should! It promotes honesty.
    This honestly is conducive to creating a non-judgmental sexual environment, one of the most important aspects of female sexuality.


    Your job is to prove to her you are different from all the other guys. You are more confident, and she doesn't ever need to rub your ego, unlike her previous lovers. Ego rubbing can be a habit, learn to spot it, and get her to stop it. You may notice this more acutely if your woman was brought up by only a man.


    There are some things you should open up with, insecurity wise.
    This is a turn on for women, sharing insecurities, as they have an instinct to nurture.
    I sparsely lay on my girls bosom, and open up emotionally. It's a total move, and gets a powerful response. This level of openness regarding my body and emotions is far rarer than a large penis!


    The stance I take is:
    I wouldn't mind a bigger one, she'd like me to have a bigger one. This is accepted. We're still in love.
    I am surrounded by people who love me. I am one lucky bastard! Who cares about a slight lack of girth? It'll grow, anyway!
    I provide an environment where she can be open about her sexuality like never before.
    Importantly, I attend to her need to be stretched. More on that later.


    I get as insecure as the next man. I try to replace those thoughts with one of the above affirmations as soon as possible, cognitive dissonance or no. Putting size into perspective RE how lucky I am, is the best one for me.


    Size anxiety can be reduced by lowering your exposure to certain material. Stop Googling 'do women need a large girth,' because it's doing nothing for your sexual confidence. A scared to shit dick won't grow .


    Gentlemen, these qualities trump a large penis 8 out of 10 times. If you manufacture a totally open environment, and never show insecurity only about sexual performance, that may lead onto..


    A non judgmental, sexually open environment


    This one won't happen without a big dick mentality. The lady will mirror and amplify your confidence in her own body. A self conscious lady won't let you know anything 'odd' or 'fringe' about her for fear of judgment. Women feel judged by society at large far more than men do.


    Also, if you are insecure about your penis, she will not share her deepest desires, for fear of bruising your poor ego. That's the way you've taught her to act - almost completely your fault.


    Insecurity over your body/pride will likely lead to your woman stroking your ego, because they all know how fragile the male ego is. This ego stroking time could be time spent opening up to you, and may be a sign your woman isn't fully sexually open.


    You will have to keep on at this. Her opinion of your ego may be set by many years of marriage.
    Ultimately, I want my girl to 'open up' where she feels safe telling me she wants to be gang-banged by 10 hung black men. I really hope that isn't the case! Trust aside, if she really wants that, we can invest in different sized dildos, tie her up, and crack on. This is a fantasy she will probably never be able to live out, but something we can recreate, only if I drop my ego, and she feel safe enough to express it. Trust is the key word here, for both parties. Trust and compatibility.


    Another aspect of female sexuality is how attractive she feels. You cannot live her life for her, and you cannot force her to work out/lose weight/do kegels.


    Instead, try to lead through positive emotions, and make it about yourself if possible.
    You need to lose weight becomes: 'Have you lost weight? I've been feeling self conscious about myself recently, perhaps we could join the gym together?'
    You need to do kegels becomes 'You felt so tight. Have you started doing kegels? You were squeezing me tight and I felt much bigger inside you.'
    You need more hobbies becomes 'You know, I'm really bad at dancing. Would you join a dance class with me? '


    You get the picture. Women are way more socially intelligent than us, so try to plant all seeds like these during an afterglow.


    There is one way you can make her feel highly attractive, and that is..


    Cultivating a high sex drive


    She will reciprocate your desire for her. I can't speak for post menopausal women, but women love to look and feel and sound and smell and taste sexy. A good way for you to validate her efforts is with your own sex drive.


    Complements and eye gazing work to build trust, but nothing is as good as raw, male desire. Mine wants to feel like my prey, and wants to feel invaded by raw male sex drive. I've slept with others who express the same desire, to be won over and ultimately dominated by a (trusted) male who has lost control.


    Cultivating a high sex drive is a very big commitment. You must eat clean, exercise, ensure good blood flow, must have confidence in your penis size and staying power, and much more. Vaso dilating supplements can help confidence, but this is a long term commitment. Do your own research and use common sense. The penis and sex drive are excellent indicators of overall health.


    Abstaining from hyper stimulation (porn, self stimulation to intense fantasy) and masturbation to fantasy is an excellent way to increase sex drive. Save your bolt for your Mrs!

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    There we have the mental aspects. I'm sure you can find books upon books about this stuff! If your woman needs to feel stretched, you should drop your ego and provide that physical feeling.


    The moment I realized me and my woman are not suitably sized for each other (for now), is when I put my finger in her pussy while having sex. Boy did she moan!


    I was deflated when this technique didn't have the same effect the second time around. You can't do the same thing every time, but you can think of other ways to emulate the feeling, and cycle them.


    Physical aspects: the 6 ways
    Finger inside



    You need to be flexible. I found the best position for this is her flat on her belly, and me on top. I put my arm under her body, gently push my finger inside her, along her top wall (closest to the clitoris). This provides a great stretch. You can be creative with this - positions, timing, number of fingers, which part of the pussy (sides/top/bottom), circle the first g-spot, thumb the clit. Careful, you can hurt you CS, as I have, and your smooth muscle may contract for 24 hours, as mine is currently .


    Anal play


    Something inside her anus makes her vaginal canal tighter. Be careful! Experiment with what you like. It could be your finger, it could be hers. Perhaps you can bring a dildo into the relationship, perhaps a butt plug.


    Penis sleeve


    For variety, these also come with inbuilt vibrators. Self explanatory, you can't use these every time, so mix it up.


    Girth increasing positions


    Google these, but bringing her knees up to her chest will shorten the vaginal canal, and bringing her thighs together will tighten it. Combine these positions with kegels.


    Penis pressure on forchet/circular motions


    The forchet is the tapering off of the vulva(?), the bottom part of her vagina/part closest to her anus. You should apply pressure against that with your penis. Doggy is good for this, as is missionary. I've never gotten any value out of circular penetration, but am including it as I have seen it written before.


    Objects in her vagina


    This is self explanatory. Your penis and a thin object, a creative sex toy, or a wide dildo. Experiment.

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    There you are!
    Hopefully, the importance of mentality is not lost on you. Sex happens in the brain for many women, that is something you should be working on.


    At any rate, we can increase our size, so the 6 girth enhancing tips I've given above should be temporary measures. The mental aspect of a relationship should be nurtured alongside healthy PE.


    I hope I can be of value to some men, as this forum has already been of huge value to me!
    Have fun and joyous tugging into the new year .
    December 2014:
    7.5 bp +0.3
    4.9 eg
    Poor EQ - porn induced

    Goals:
    8.0 bp
    5.7 eg
    _________

    My EQ is great.
    Comment on my daily girth log!

    https://www.pegym.com/forums/progres...daily-log.html

    Jelqing 5 x 10 minutes weekly

  • #2
    WHY HAS THIS NOT RECEIVED ANY COMMENTS!!!! This is mind blowing!! Thank you since my fwb ended with another dude who is larger than me I spent my time obsessing over "does size matter" related stuff when I lost track of what made me get women in the first place...
    Oct-17:EL 5.5" EG 4.8"
    Nov-17:EL 5.8" EG 5.0"
    Dec-18:EL 6.4" EG 5.2"
    Feb-19:EL 6.6" EG 5.2"
    Goal: NBPEL 7+" EG 5.6"

    Life's a garden dig it.

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    • #3
      Glad that you bumped this thread DayoldMeat.

      Some nice perspectives on this thread.
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      • #4
        I have it saved to reread over and over when I get down about myself since the ending of my fwb girl who is with a bigger guy now.
        Oct-17:EL 5.5" EG 4.8"
        Nov-17:EL 5.8" EG 5.0"
        Dec-18:EL 6.4" EG 5.2"
        Feb-19:EL 6.6" EG 5.2"
        Goal: NBPEL 7+" EG 5.6"

        Life's a garden dig it.

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        • #5
          Great post
          Start 5.8 (14.9 cm) BPEL 5.2 MEG

          Now: 7 .9 (20 cm ) BPEL 5.3 MEG

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