I don t believe Bisexual exist.
They are just gay that are able to have sex with the other gender too.
In other words their real passion is people of the same gender.
I ve spoken with lots of gay people...men and women that were claiming bisexual. And when we were becoming friends they were all telling me that my conclusion is accurate.
So its either Straight or Gay.
And I have no problems with gay men as long as they are not hiting on me.
I have had sex once with a lesbian...not good.
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Why does not liking a gay man hitting on you as a guy an anti gay thing? How does it mean you dislike or don't approve of people being gay? When you get hit on whether it's by a guy, girl or goat that person is being very forward and violating in a sense your space. As much as we may joke around and say we all love being hit on in reality it puts the person being hit on in an awkward place.
Now when you're under 30 at bars or wherever you do kind and go for that but past that age and not at the bar scene the person that is doing the hitting is more times than not unwelcome. Why do we like to make someone feel that way? Because we think they're hot or something?
Like I said there are venues where hitting on is a known thing and you go there expecting to be hit or hit on and that's okay. For most of us we've grown out of that scene and it's just rude to do it to someone no matter what sex.
Let's not look to offend or to be offended; way too much of that going around already.
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Why does not liking a gay man hitting on you as a guy an anti gay thing? How does it mean you dislike or don't approve of people being gay? When you get hit on whether it's by a guy, girl or goat that person is being very forward and violating in a sense your space. As much as we may joke around and say we all love being hit on in reality it puts the person being hit on in an awkward place.
Now when you're under 30 at bars or wherever you do kind and go for that but past that age and not at the bar scene the person that is doing the hitting is more times than not unwelcome. Why do we like to make someone feel that way? Because we think they're hot or something?
Like I said there are venues where hitting on is a known thing and you go there expecting to be hit or hit on and that's okay. For most of us we've grown out of that scene and it's just rude to do it to someone no matter what sex.
Let's not look to offend or to be offended; way too much of that going around already.
What I DO find offensive is to claim a sexual orientation does not exist based on some random field work: you are either ruling out their sexuality (and by extension their identity) OR you are flat out calling them liars.
Be kind and inclusive and if you can't maybe just don't speak?
The origin of this thread was not asking whether different sexualities exist but if this site only consists of straight blokes
Unfortunately threads of these types of matters (race, politics, religion, orientation) seldom stick to yes/no format. Everyone has to add their two cents and as long as they can be respectful and follow the forum rules, that's fine. We should all respect our differences in preference, avoid generalizations and refrain from derogatory speech. Failure to do so will result in disciplinary action from the moderation team.
What I DO find offensive is to claim a sexual orientation does not exist based on some random field work: you are either ruling out their sexuality (and by extension their identity) OR you are flat out calling them liars.
Be kind and inclusive and if you can't maybe just don't speak?
The origin of this thread was not asking whether different sexualities exist but if this site only consists of straight blokes
You define your identity by your sexual orientation? Maybe I'm old but I have always defined myself as how much good have or could I do for others; am I honest, hard working, caring. My sexual preference never even made it to the list.
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