Lubricant?

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Does anybody knows about a lubricant that increase sensitivity and pleasure? I'd say about 95% of them are made "to last longer" i.e., decreasing sensitivity. I am looking for the opposite. lol. I've found some with that "warming effect", but they do not specify if those still decrease sensitivity.

Thanks!!

[Pirate Retired AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Pirate]

I would think that the warming lubes would increase sensitivity just because they bring more blood to the surface.

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I would think that the warming lubes would increase sensitivity just because they bring more blood to the surface.

Exactly, that is my first impression with them. However, with so many mixed ingredients, I am not sure if besides the warming effect they add something to decrease sensitivity. Because most of them advertise a wonderful sensation while making you last long. They do not specify anything else. Something that will speed up orgasm is like a taboo these days...

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Now that you mention it, I do not remember ever seeing anything advertised to speed up orgasm.

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Now that you mention it, I do not remember ever seeing anything advertised to speed up orgasm.

Yeah man. That's the reason I ask. The advertise increased sensitivity, warm feeling, deep pleasure, BUT at the same time, they say "perform like a pornstar, last all night, control your erection, etc.....but never something that can increase sensitivity, pleasure and speed up orgasm.

However, there are some products designed for women, that specifically say "reach more and deeper orgasms" I wonder if one of those can have the same effect on men. I would assume yes, since the same ingredients can act in the phallus nerves. But that's why I wonder if anybody has had any experience with this issue, before I start trying lubes.

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When you do get to the experimental stage, please share your results. Delayed ejaculation is an issue for a number of PEGym members.

[Leviathan Member Find all posts View Profile Close Leviathan]

We tried one of those "stimulating" gels designed for women [ to use on the clitoris ] It was about $8 for a tiny little tube, but we said "eh" might as well give it a shot.

Honestly, it had an "ok" effect on me, not really much. But, with Hubby, WOW! We rubbed a few drops on the head of his penis, & he got even more twitchy then usual! He was moaning & thrashing, & he said it felt super intense.

BUT. It did not get him to ejaculate any sooner. He said it was "too intense."

I think the main ingredient of those "stimulating" gels for women is L-Arganine, so I imagine taking it orally as a vitamin might have a better effect.

[millia Senior Member;PEGym Editor Find all posts View Profile Close millia]

Thanks to modern day pornography I'd say that something promoting the speeding up of an ejaculation would be very rare to come across.

[calixto ModeratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close calixto]

THIS is why I am regrowing my foreskin, or trying at least. So much sensitivity is lost by that one "little" cut.

Not so little of a cut it has turned out, for me.

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I once tried one of those stimulating creams that they make for women. Mostly it made my clit feel hot and sort of over-sensitive on the surface, without reaching deeper to effect any real stimulation. It was a disappointment.

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I too have been looking for years for a sensitizing lube without success. Because of my ED, I often use a constricting band to maintain the blood in my shaft and glans. After 15 minutes of being constricted, my glans start to become desensitized.

I recently tried adding Arthritis Hot Pain Relief to my lube to give my wife a back rub to relieve her back pain. She said it felt great so I tried a small amount on my dick. I thought my dick was on fire. I am going to try it again with just a trace of "heat rub" added and see what happens and report back.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

Does anybody knows about a lubricant that increase sensitivity and pleasure? I'd say about 95% of them are made "to last longer" i.e., decreasing sensitivity. I am looking for the opposite. lol. I've found some with that "warming effect", but they do not specify if those still decrease sensitivity.

Thanks!!

Like others here, I can't ever recall anything on the market to help speed things up. And if I may ask ... why would you want to?

I recently tried adding Arthritis Hot Pain Relief to my lube to give my wife a back rub to relieve her back pain. She said it felt great so I tried a small amount on my dick. I thought my dick was on fire. I am going to try it again with just a trace of "heat rub" added and see what happens and report back.

It took me about 20 minutes to calm down enough to type this since I was laughing soooo damn hard! I wasn't really laighing at your pain but because I know EXACTLY how you felt! ROFLMAO!!! I did that many many years ago (albeit accidentally) and it was the most intense thing I'd ever felt! Not pleasurable at all!!! I would NOT advise doing that again - no matter how tiny the amount you use.

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if I may ask ... why would you want to?





It took me about 20 minutes to calm down enough to type this since I was laughing soooo damn hard! I wasn't really laighing at your pain but because I know EXACTLY how you felt! ROFLMAO!!! I did that many many years ago (albeit accidentally) and it was the most intense thing I'd ever felt! Not pleasurable at all!!! I would NOT advise doing that again - no matter how tiny the amount you use.

If you delay cumming long enough in order to get your wife off first, your glans can become desensitized from all that friction. Now its your turn, but your glans is too desensitized to keep your dick stimulated. At this point, sensitizing lube would really come, or cum, in handy. Also as I mentioned previously, a constriction band can cause your glans to become desensitized.

I appreciate you empathy. I would, however, like to try a small trace experiment, but I am in no rush to try it.

[GTO Retired ModeratorPEGym EditorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GTO]

If you delay cumming long enough in order to get your wife off first, your glans can become desensitized from all that friction.

I'm pretty sure you've already tried this but to throw it out there anyway, try multiple positions that hit her G/A spots. The change will mix it up for you (keep you sensitized) and at the same time keep her on edge to cum faster (and more often). But be careful - you may find a position you like a little too much and unintentionally camping out! LOL!

Have fun!