need some help!

[urindanger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close urindanger]

Hey guys, I've been reading through the forum pages for a while now but have never registered. Just wanted to introduce myself and have several questions if any of you can help me

1) I'm a very visual learner and learn mainly by example, I'm sort of lost on how to successfully increase just length.. I want to try JP90 Beginner methods but is there any visual guide to this, I'm not 100% sure how envision all the exercises in my head and the only ones I feel I've done properly is the regular "jelq". Any video links anyone can direct me too I simply get lost when there's a "wall of text".

2) I'm 18 years old and currently at 6.5 x 6.0 and wondering if its done naturally growing. My goal is 7.5 length and am determined to start PE to get there, just need some teaching videos because I don't want to do the exercise wrong, I believe proper technique is everything!

3) I need to take anti-depressant medication which I can't come off which delays my orgasm/ejaculation a ton! I find myself unable to "finish" in bed even though it feels good. Sounds great in the beginning but it's become frustrating too just keep going and going and going without climax, any tips/suggestions on how to get off faster besides just being "horny". It's not like it doesn't feel good when I have sex, it does, its just not enough "umph" to get me to the climax point and don't want to just awkwardly make her wait while I jerk it off for the last 5-8 minutes.

[Novajelqer Banned Find all posts View Profile Close Novajelqer]

Welcome to the Gym. What type of meds are you on? Are there natural alternatives that you would be able to use to overcome your symptoms? I don't have any videos links but other members may be able to help. Good luck with your Pe journey. You have great starting stats and you still may have some natural growth, i think by starting Pe now you may be able to increase easier than most. Keep us posted. Oops almost forgot, eating healthy, getting rest and exercise will help too.

[Unit Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Unit]

Welcome to the PEGym.

1) Jelqing Video - Penis Exercise For Size and Hardness , V-Jelq - Penis Exercise For Size and Hardness and Penis Stretch Video - Penis Exercise For Size and Hardness These should get you started.

2) No you are not finished with you natural growth. You still have a few more years yet.

3) I wonder about the medication, most antidepressants don't have that effect. I wonder if the source of your problem may be something else. Masturbation and porn come to mind.

[TheSperminator Member of the Month Oct 12 Find all posts View Profile Close TheSperminator]

What Unit says + medication is for a lot of members here a cause of Premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction, atleast I've red it a couple of times.

[urindanger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close urindanger]

Hey, thanks for the welcome and info guys. I'm going to take a look at the videos you posted in a second @Unit. The antidepressant I'm taking is called Celexa and one of the main side effects is delayed ejaculation, I believe it is stated in the packet of potential side effects it was given. Unfortunately I cannot come off Celexa anytime soon because I'm undergoing treatment for my anxiety disorder. I believe a combination of the medication and the way I masturbate (lots of fast and hard movements as well as porn of course) have not helped the situation. I've waited 9 days without masturbation and had sex missionary with a girl and it felt fine I just can't seem to hit climax (possibly being used to hard movements from masturbating). Are there any natural foods, smells, touch-sensations in the body that can get me off? It's very annoying and it makes my partner think that she is unattractive and unfit and of course I don't get the end result either.

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

Do you watch porn at all? I do think with time and practice, you will reach climax
more easily with your girl. I had trouble for quite a while, due to excessive
masturbation, I believe, but I overcame it with time. The Celexa, like most anti-
depressants, (I've been on them all), may be a factor, but it is one you can
beat, with time.

[urindanger Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close urindanger]

Do you watch porn at all? I do think with time and practice, you will reach climax
more easily with your girl. I had trouble for quite a while, due to excessive
masturbation, I believe, but I overcame it with time. The Celexa, like most anti-
depressants, (I've been on them all), may be a factor, but it is one you can
beat, with time.

How long did you usually last when you initially had your problem and were you able to reach climax? Besides time did you find anything to help reach it quicker?

[Going411x7 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Going411x7]

I could last for an hour or more. We would stop and then keep right on going until she yelled, "Enough!" Sometimes I would climax
the second time around and sometimes I had to masturbate to ejaculate. What eventually worked for me besides time was to ask
her to gently touch my penis. When I let her fondle, rub, and tickle my penis, I came much more quickly. I am sure that for me, it was also not being in control.

Once I gave up my need to control our sexual encounter, it became much richer, much more intimate, and much easier for me
to ejaculate. When she felt comfortable rubbing and tickling my penis, I not only came much more quickly, but I even learned
to have a full body orgasm, which is mind blowing. My orgasms would last a minute or longer.

I hope this is of some help for you.

[keepwinning Member Find all posts View Profile Close keepwinning]

Yes its the celexa all right. I was on it a couple of years back and the same thing happened to me. It was so bad I decided to get off of it, even though my depression was and still is pretty severe. I don't take any antidepressants now. That experience scared me.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Welcome to the gym, did you know that at 6 inches of girth you are way above average. That should make you smile. Average girth is about 5.00 inches. Enjoy the gym.