Thoughts and questions

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

Have you ever had moments while doing PE, where you kind of think....."what am I doing?"...."why do I care so much about this?" and things? haha. I only have once or twice. But its mostly positive thoughts. It just now and then and doesn't last long haha. I always go back to the positve. But I, guess the main question on my mind at times, is is "bigger" actually "better" in terms of pleasure for a female.

You see Im not experienced in sex and don't know how a female would like mine. I am now about a 6.3 or so. I was only just about a 6 when I started P.E about 4 or 5 weeks ago.

I read things on the internet that say "bigger", ie around 7 or even more sometimes, feels great. However Ive read others that say the vagina is only 4 inches or so long, and that you can only fit that much in without causing pain hah.

Now I dont like the idea of only being able to go in half way.

But I just wish I could know the full truth. And not someone saying something not to hurt somenes feelings. Because I know I can work on size anyway.
I WOULDNT want to make sex uncomfortable for anyone. But if it might be better for them if i continue the excersises.....I will.

If this needs to be moved to the "womans perspective" area or something, feel free.

Also, once you get to a size your happy with. How can you keep that, but not get longer. Or say get thicker, but stop getting longer maybe?

Thanks.

[CUSP82 Administrator Admin of the Month Dec 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close CUSP82]

A female likes you, not your dick. If she really likes you then she will like your dick. That's how it works; not the other way around!

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

Yeah! True! I guess I'd need to find one that likes me.

But thats a different point haha.

The thing is I know that, but I feel like if it does feel "better" to them if its "bigger", and I can attempt to make it abit "bigger" doing this, I feel like I mayaswell because I have nothing to loose ha. Rather than it being to get them to "like" me.
I just mean for one does like me in future, if they do anytime soon, I feel I'd like to make it as nice for them as I can.

I just want to know weather generally, it feels "better" or "worse" to most females, if its whats considred "big", regardless of weather I'm liked or not haha.

[imac Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 12PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close imac]

Pleasure is entirely mental, the size of your dick doesn't matter if you know what you're doing. Get the thought out of your head that you need the perfect penis to give a girl pleasure, that is a self limiting believe. if you know what you're doing you can get a woman off with just the tip of you're little finger.

Instead of worrying so much about if you dicks big enough, educate yourself about female sexuality. The more knowledge you have the more pleasure you can give.

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Sacred your questions are very diverse and cusp and imac have done an admirable job in reply. To maintain your gains you should keep exercising just as you would for the entire body for the rest of your life. Once you've reached your goals you will of course need to reduce the focus on growth and concentrate on maintenance. An explanation of this can be found in the archives of the gym. A healthy lifestyle and a positive attitude will result in excellent sexual function.

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

You are slao gaining better health for your pecker. a bit more size wont be a bad thing but the best thing is one that works,

[malehanger Banned Find all posts View Profile Close malehanger]

I have asked myself similar questions and my answers are always "because I CAN do this", or something similar. I don't do it because I feel like I "have to" in order to feel better about myself, my penis, or to make someone else happy.

[eow. Member of the Month April 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close eow.]

The vagina is 4 inches long when it is not receiving dick. While receiving dick, it will stretch to accommodate the length (not ANY length, but up to 8" depending on the woman).

[sacredrealm Member Find all posts View Profile Close sacredrealm]

I have asked myself similar questions and my answers are always "because I CAN do this", or something similar. I don't do it because I feel like I "have to" in order to feel better about myself, my penis, or to make someone else happy.

Thats pretty much the attitude I try to have with it.

Because I can haha. I just guess what I was wondering about was weather having the ability to do this.....ie. "because I can" would actually give a benefit when it came to stuff with a woman. And I'm not going to say "performing". Because it shouldnt be a "performance" to me haha.

The vagina is 4 inches long when it is not receiving dick. While receiving dick, it will stretch to accommodate the length (not ANY length, but up to 8" depending on the woman).

Thats interesting. The thing I wondered about this is that so many people on the net seem to say different things about this. Like it starts at 4" and can adapt up to only 6", or something, or even 5", ive seen some say.

I Just know for sure I don't want to be at a size that is going to bang against places up there its not supposed to, thus causing pain. But I guess if the vagina usualy acts as YOU say, that shouldnt be a problem even if I became a whole inch bigger haha.

[eow. Member of the Month April 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close eow.]

Well, like I said it depends on the woman, but even if she can't take all of it initially, through practice she may be able to take 8 inches. I'm not sure if there is a woman who can take 8.5-9 inches nuts to the wall. Then again I don't watch much porn, so someone please enlighten me. I'm pretty curious now.