Do you share your PE success?

[AnthonyR Member Find all posts View Profile Close AnthonyR]

Now that I've been PE-ing for about 7 months (with gains I'm happy with), I've started to wonder about if I should share this with others. I can (happily) say I don't know the penis sizes of any guy that I know, but I figure there are probably some (like my brother perhaps, who shares the same genes as me) that may benefit from PE-ing as I have. But I'm a little embarrassed about talking about it with people, especially given the wide-spread scepticism in society regarding PE. Has anyone else confronted this issue before? I feel like it's a bit weird, but also a bit selfish if I don't share the good news of PE success with others.

Thoughts?

[donjelqer76 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close donjelqer76]

I wouldn't tell just anybody. Maybe if it were somebody I trusted a lot. Some people get weird about stuff like this and you always have to worry about if there would be repercussions - like it'd you were a teacher for example.

[Toadstool Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Toadstool]

DJ is right. Some people do get weirded out about penis-talk.
Gauge who you're talking to. I don't mind talking to people about me and PE. I end up telling most girls I date and some of my guy friends. I told my roomate and he seemed interested ... until he learned that he could hurt himself and has since refused to try.

[Lavio Member Find all posts View Profile Close Lavio]

I won't tell anyone because Im a very superstitious person (yeah, corny I know) and somehow I believe Ill jinx my own potential gains if I tell anyone about this, lol.

I probably know a few guys I could tell. A couple of months ago, I found out about PMO (porn-masturbation-orgasm) which is a method where you're not allowed to do or use any of the three for a fixed amount of time in order to cure porn induced ED (which sadly probably is more widespread than we think, at least in guys in their 20's). When I found out about this crazy thing I had read in a internet forum to my classmates (well, not ALL my classmates but a small circle) they were all stoked as they also had problem with erections. Needless to say, it helped them a lot too, and they probably appreciated that I was so straightforward about it.

I COULD tell them about PE but I fell Im still on the fence on whether or not this has a) REAL, permanent gains effects and b) the methodology is sound.. I wouldn't want to tell them to pull their dick and milk it, if it turns out this stuff doesn't work. Ill let myself be the crash dummy, and after evaluation I might tell them (if I don't feel it will jinx my gains haha).

[phallic1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close phallic1]

First rule of Fight Club....

Seriously, nothing good will come from talking or sharing about enlarging your penis.

I live alone and this girlfriend of my buddy stopped over one day unannounced. She is an extremely snoopy type. She went to use my bathroom and while she was in there she just had to look behind the shower curtain. My penis pump was sitting on the edge of the tub.

Some time later, while a bunch of us are sitting around a fire bs'ing and having a few drinks....she blurts outs "xxxxx puts his dinky in a penis pump to try and make it bigger". Awkward moment of silence fell around the fire.

Another time, same buddy's girlfriend comes barging into my house unannounced and without even knocking as I'm standing with my back to the door wearing a serong (sp) around my waist and 10 pounds hanging from my penis. It's not like you can run away quickly when your caught like that.

Once again, "xxxxx hangs weights off his dinky" in front of a pile of people.

That shit happens without purposely inviting it...heed my advice.

First rule of Fight Club...

[second lensman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close second lensman]

Self improvement is nothing to be ashamed of but it's best to show a little discretion. In other words, I wouldn't stand on a soap box downtown and announce it to the world but I wouldn't be afraid to share it with close friends. They'd certainly benefit as well from a salubrious regimen of PE just as with any other form of physical or mental exercise.

[Dubgrip Member Find all posts View Profile Close Dubgrip]

I think a lot of guys might feel uncomfortable with it since it might put them in a frame where they have to admit they aren't as satisfied with what they have. What man wants to do that? I've mentioned it to one my close friends but not to another of my besties. Just depends on the rapport. I might not go into too much detail w a lot of folks though. When I told a female friend of mine I just framed it as general maintenance and penile health w some added growth benefits.

[Galvon Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Galvon]

Now that I've been PE-ing for about 7 months (with gains I'm happy with), I've started to wonder about if I should share this with others. I can (happily) say I don't know the penis sizes of any guy that I know, but I figure there are probably some (like my brother perhaps, who shares the same genes as me) that may benefit from PE-ing as I have. But I'm a little embarrassed about talking about it with people, especially given the wide-spread scepticism in society regarding PE. Has anyone else confronted this issue before? I feel like it's a bit weird, but also a bit selfish if I don't share the good news of PE success with others.

Thoughts?

This is a great question. In today's society, PE is considered taboo by most. This means that an attempt to tout the efficacy of PE based on personal experience via a public conversation will subject you to a potential loss of social standing with those around you including your friends and peers *if not handled exactly right. From a psychological perspective, it is clear that you wish to share your success with others, as most or maybe all of us here do, and rightly so. Instead of having a discussion about the process of PE with your peers as a means of satisfying the urge to share your success, my suggestion would be to just be at peace with yourself and let it hang out at the showers when your at the gym, and every other available opportunity you have to walk around buck naked, or even a tight speedo to show off the bulge. If your buds know you have a whopper, and can see that you are comfortable and humble with it flapping around, this will equate to having shared your success without verbally explaining PE. As opposed to a logical discussion with your peers on the subject of PE, the speechless method actually allows an opportunity to move up in the social rankings within your circle due to the underlying respect you receive. I have witnessed this happen to a guy in my army days! Once that happens, rumors will spread to the ladies (or guys if that is your sexual preference) and if you're single, you'll have your choice of women (or men if you prefer) which will lead to far more enjoyable opportunities to tout the efficacy of PE with no words.

Great question, and continued success to you.

[Koh Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Koh]

Perhaps, when I gain some success. Months, but no cigar...

[AnthonyR Member Find all posts View Profile Close AnthonyR]

Great input everyone, thanks a ton! I think the primary reason I'm inclined to share my PE success is that the reason I started PE was because my wife said I had a small penis. Which, to be honest, was a pretty devastating thing to hear. And I really don't want other people to have to hear that. So I think I might be willing to risk a little embarrassment in order to spare another guy the pain of having to hear that.

[TurtleProblems Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TurtleProblems]

Nah. Just one person, an intelligent open minded close friend. I'm sort of coaching him. Every now and then we talk about PE, told him how I've been in the game 6 years basically my whole PE story,the trial and errors and mistakes I made along the way. He's been pumping now for 2 months with gains so he says. To be honest, most people don't have the time or patience to make any real gains, not really worth mentioning anything unless they ask first.

[Cya at 8 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cya at 8]

If it is bothersome enough for them to have the motivation, they'll find it themselves.

[misterK13 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close misterK13]

do not risk.I did that.No happy feelings

[sdaddy Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sdaddy]

@Phallic1, my goodness. Your buddy's girlfriend is quite the gem.

@OP, I don't share my PE efforts with anyone. The last thing I need is a woman telling to cease PE.

[AnthonyR Member Find all posts View Profile Close AnthonyR]

@OP, I don't share my PE efforts with anyone. The last thing I need is a woman telling to cease PE.

Hah, I hear what you're saying there. My wife is constantly telling me to stop. Despite also being the one who told me I had a small penis, thus making me do PE. Seems like a contradiction to me. Of course, that's women for you...