Vaginas don't feel tight to me

[DeMi-GoD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close DeMi-GoD]

Is it because I'm too used to dry masturbating? I've been with 7 women and they all pretty much feel the same. I don't have an issue having an orgasm with or without a condom but I never feel like the vagina is gripping my penis. It just feels loose. I'm always able to easily penetrate too. I'm worried it's because my penis is skinny. My girth is somewhere around 4.7 I believe and I'm about 7 bpel.

[everydaynormalguy Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close everydaynormalguy]

Probably you are comparing ( and you are used to) your masturbation grip to vagina.I find girls gripping my penis with hand less stronger then me while jerking off.Probably you are used to hard grip and everything feels loose.If you do have orgasms this means that there is some grip around it.

[Jay1983 Senior MemberMember of the Month Apr 2014, Sept 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Jay1983]

Stop kegeling during sex. Relax. Depend on arousal and stimulation during sex, NOT kegel holds and visual stimulation.

If you fap to porn, you need to stop, because porn wires your brain to dick connection to depend on kegels and visual stimulation for pleasure.

Focus on the pleasure you get from stimulation, not porn or fantasies or any of that other garbage. Relax and let that pleasure you get from stimulation arouse you, let it take you to another place.

All I'm saying is you're missing out on the real stuff.. real sex is just as good, if not better, than pure MDMA. Don't let porn fucking ruin that for you, any longer.

Balance your pelvic floor!

[Marlon LGHanger Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Marlon LGHanger]

Is it because I'm too used to dry masturbating? I've been with 7 women and they all pretty much feel the same. I don't have an issue having an orgasm with or without a condom but I never feel like the vagina is gripping my penis. It just feels loose. I'm always able to easily penetrate too. I'm worried it's because my penis is skinny. My girth is somewhere around 4.7 I believe and I'm about 7 bpel.

STOP using your hand when you masturbate! If you can't have sex with a woman then next best thing is a "Fleshlite". They are very realistic in feel

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Shift her around a little to get a "tighter" feel. If in missionary, take her legs and put them up on each side of your neck - it will cause her to bring her thighs together for a tighter feel. If in doggy have her keep her knees together - same result. Another option is to take her hand and place it on your unit while inside her and thrusting - have her make a "V" out of her index and middle finger and apply pressure to both sides of your unit. Lots of ways to make things feel tighter.

[master-gauge Senior Member Member of the Month May 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close master-gauge]

^^^ Exactly what I was going to say ZZman.. It works..

[Stealthpeman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stealthpeman]

You could stand to gain some girth. That bein said when I met my gf she was one finger tight, it took a bit work before sex was more fluid.

Finding a girl like that would be on the rare side I would imagine, its certainly brings on the ponr a lot faster then I wanted.

Aside from making your girth bigger she can also use Ben wa balls/ Kegal to strengthen the vag.

There are those positions to make it seem tighter then it is.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

You could stand to gain some girth. That bein said when I met my gf she was one finger tight, it took a bit work before sex was more fluid.

Finding a girl like that would be on the rare side I would imagine, its certainly brings on the ponr a lot faster then I wanted.

Aside from making your girth bigger she can also use Ben wa balls/ Kegal to strengthen the vag.

There are those positions to make it seem tighter then it is.

My own personal opinions/comments:
1) His girth is just fine. He's not that far off from my PL, maybe even a bit bigger, and PL is awesome in bed.
2) Kegals are a must. I don't care who the woman is, unless she's naturally just extremely narrow and tight. I've never felt like I was particularly small vaginally, I've certainly never had any physician/OBGYN make any comments like that during exams so I've always just assumed I'm pretty much normal. But I've basically been doing kegals since I was a kid.
(Embarrassing story time: As a little kid I used to have a relative that would delight in tickling me until I peed myself and then making fun of me for it. I remember having a conversation about it with my mother and doctor and being told to try strengthening those muscles by stopping & starting peeing in the bathroom. So I did. And I still practice kegals frequently (although not usually while peeing because they don't recommend that anymore))
So as a result of many years of routine kegalling I think I've got those muscles pretty well toned. And one of my favourite things to do is use them now and then during sex. I love the sounds guys make when I do that lol.

So yeah, nothing wrong with OP's girth, kegals are fantastic.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Hey Q. Do you kegal for him or because you need too, in order to feel him inside you, and have a bigger orgasm?

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Hey Q. Do you kegal for him or because you need too, in order to feel him inside you, and have a bigger orgasm?

I don't orgasm from PIV sex, so kegalling or not has no effect on that.

I think I actually feel him LESS when I'm actively kegalling during sex. I know he feels it because he'll make comments like "OMG I can feel you gripping me" or "Oh god I love it when you do that". That's why I do it during sex, because I know it's pleasurable for him. Actively doing it during sex does not increase my personal pleasure level at all.

I will say though that I think that years of just routinely doing it have made those muscles just overall more toned and tighter, because without fail every single time I've been with someone new they've said "OMG you're so tight" and if for instance I'm with MainFWB after not having seen him for a few months he'll comment about having forgotten how tight I am.

Like I said I've never really considered myself as "tight" or "small", and it's never come up during an exam so... I just always figured I was average.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Vaginas widen the more turned on the woman gets.


There's a reason Aussies call a lady boner a "wide on."

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Vaginas widen the more turned on the woman gets.


There's a reason Aussies call a lady boner a "wide on."

Yup. I think also the more excited and wet they get down there it can just feel wider.

Could be a sensitivity thing also.

[Cokafor Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Cokafor]

How is your EQ? I was having trouble with this as well when I suffered from very poor EQ

[Stealthpeman Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Stealthpeman]

I don't orgasm from PIV sex, so kegalling or not has no effect on that.

I think I actually feel him LESS when I'm actively kegalling during sex. I know he feels it because he'll make comments like "OMG I can feel you gripping me" or "Oh god I love it when you do that". That's why I do it during sex, because I know it's pleasurable for him. Actively doing it during sex does not increase my personal pleasure level at all.

I will say though that I think that years of just routinely doing it have made those muscles just overall more toned and tighter, because without fail every single time I've been with someone new they've said "OMG you're so tight" and if for instance I'm with MainFWB after not having seen him for a few months he'll comment about having forgotten how tight I am.

Like I said I've never really considered myself as "tight" or "small", and it's never come up during an exam so... I just always figured I was average.

The big difference here is that you are on top of your kegals and toning, there are a lot that are not and become very loose down there. And maybe unaware of being able to improve on it or care for that matter.

I'm not saying his girth is bad but even 1/2 in girth can make a massive difference.

[Mavric Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mavric]

If a woman is very turned on and is dripping wet it will be very slippery and even if she is tight it will not feel like it. If you sleep with the same woman regularly and some times when she's not super horney it will feel slot better.