i was recently told by an ex that the reason are relationship failed was because i never knew how to calm her down or make her feel better when she was upset.
this is partly true sometimes i really didn't know what to do. the way i see it there are 3 things u can do when a female is upset and looking to u for comfort.
one, a really warm long hug in some situations is all they need. o and don't forget NEVER FORGET to say "its going to be ok"
second, change to a lighter subject, "with grace of course" and let them bring it up again when there ready to talk then listen when they start to spill... simple head nods and grunts to show your at attention
and third bring up a related story that happend to u so they don't feel week "o man my mom d9o3es the same thing" and then let them take over the conversation
at least these are the 3 cards that i have to play. the only problem is u have like 30 secs to pick up on which one u are going to play and if u pick wrong ie a hug when they "dont want to be touched" its a lost cause and u might as well leave cause your fucked...
could i get some insight as to wtf i should do different? im only 20 so i assume im fucking up somewhere i blame it on all my blood being in my cock cause of PEing
this is partly true sometimes i really didn't know what to do. the way i see it there are 3 things u can do when a female is upset and looking to u for comfort.
one, a really warm long hug in some situations is all they need. o and don't forget NEVER FORGET to say "its going to be ok"
second, change to a lighter subject, "with grace of course" and let them bring it up again when there ready to talk then listen when they start to spill... simple head nods and grunts to show your at attention
and third bring up a related story that happend to u so they don't feel week "o man my mom d9o3es the same thing" and then let them take over the conversation
at least these are the 3 cards that i have to play. the only problem is u have like 30 secs to pick up on which one u are going to play and if u pick wrong ie a hug when they "dont want to be touched" its a lost cause and u might as well leave cause your fucked...
could i get some insight as to wtf i should do different? im only 20 so i assume im fucking up somewhere i blame it on all my blood being in my cock cause of PEing
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