Time to Commit

[Carl Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Carl]

Hello all, I signed up here years ago and have dipped in and out reading forums, thinking about starting, started and not committed, bought a jez extender, penis pills (like jacks magic beans but will not grow a giant stalk!) and now for the first time I'm writing a post.

A little about me, I'm now 34 living in England and have a small circumcised penis, being in England circumcised is not the normal so your the odd one out with a small penis, kids are cruel and showers after PE (physical education) were feared! I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 mainly from worry about my penis, and the girl I lost it with decided not to enter into a relationship as she wanted to experience an orgasm from penetration, ouch!

My penis length at the time was 6" BPEL with a full blooded erection, which would result in 5" during use with a small girth.

The story continued numerous failed relationships, people talking behind my back. I was a good looking confident lad and in my 20s could talk to girls and instigate sex easily enough. I've probably had 60 sexual partners, unfortunately most of these were drunken one night stands, I'm sure you don't have to be a psychologist to see the inner turmoil I was experiencing.

Fast forward to now and i'm overweight and under confident, my penis size is 4" EL and 5" BPEL. I have a partner who says its ok and is happy, were expecting our first child in 2 months (it works which i'm very thankful of) but the underlying unhappiness is still there regarding my penis size and it's always on my mind.

So what do I want, I want to feel good about myself. This for me is not just about a bigger penis its my overall physical and mental well being. To help get me to the place I want to be at I'm going to start the JP90, exercise regular, eat healthy and cut out porn.

I'm not expecting to double my penis size, if I could get to 6" BPEL like I used to be i'll be happier and set further goals from there, if I could reach a 6" EL I'd be overjoyed. This time it has to be done right, there's nothing to lose and lots to gain. I'm a design engineer so naturally cynical but I have to give this a go and want it to work, only time and dedication will give me my best shot.

[Closed054 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Closed054]

Welcome back and congratulations on your commitment.

[GeeMox Retired Moderator Member of the Month April 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close GeeMox]

Back!

Thank you and finally, you decided to introduced yourself with us

Good place to start is do some reading in the START HERE! thread, lots of good info there that I'm sure will guide you in your PE journey.

For the great mindset and mental health, check out this thread. It will help you.

Mental PE - Creating The Right Mindset

Starting a progress log would be a good choice as well, there you can track your workouts, post your positive and negative expereinces, gain motivation and to received feedbacks from other members.

Glad to have you with us, have a safe PE journey!

[Cavalier Retired Super Moderator Member of the Month Feb 2015PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Cavalier]

Welcome aboard!

I think most people were skeptical when they first found out and started PE. It really does work, we are real people here with real results. You are taking the right approach and with a reasonable goal, it's just going to take some time so stay motivated.


A good place to start is to do some reading in the START HERE! link that can be found at the top of the page. The JP90 is a great routine to start off with for most beginners. Start off slow, focus on safety and gradually work your way up to the full routine.


There is a lot to learn, so use your time during the JP90 to further educate yourself. There is a wealth of information here, do plenty of reading and don't hesitate to ask questions.


The key to being successful is to be dedicated, consistent and patient. PE does work, but it won't happen overnight. The rewards for putting in the time and effort are well worth it in the end.


Good luck and always PE safely.

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Welcome to the gym Carl!

Nice to see another guy from the UK here!

There is a very good chance you will gain your old BPEL back and most likely in a relatively short period. I don't want to make you any promises, but members who report losing a little size regained it back pretty soon when commencing PE again. One thing I'm confident of though is if you practice the routines here you will improve the health of your unit!

In addition to the above, losing weight can help with confidence and make your unit appear bigger when flaccid/erect. Might be worth considering a positive change in other areas of your life that will benefit your PE efforts and vice versa.

As the guys said above start a log to help you, these go in the progress forum. It will help you keep track and help others advise you with your routine! Also when doing any PE, it's best to listen to what your body is trying to tell you - > PI's < (important!).

Good luck with your routine, stay safe brother!

[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

Hey Carl!

Welcome back to the fold.

Your goal is definitely achievable. However, it may take several years of dedicated and consistent work. I achieved 1" gain in girth and length, but it took over four years.

Don't forget to take good starting measurement and photos. Gains are gradual and your eyes will not perceive your gains. Accordingly, memorialize you starting size so you have a solid base to compare your future gains to. I didn't and seriously regret my mistake.

[GettinBig1 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GettinBig1]

Hey bro! First, correct me if I'm wrong, but i think 5 in is around average (maybe slightly smaller, but not by much). As others said, starting a progress log is a good idea. Finally, i know i was skeptical at first too, but it definitely works! Think of it this way...why would all the people on this forum spend so much time on this, have nothing to actually gain from it, and falsfy numbers? Doesnt make sense! So either, it works, or were all a bunch of liars with way too much time on our hands! Hahah good luck, and pe safely!

[Carl Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Carl]

Thanks guys, my first session is complete. I didn't do all the jelqs (100 wet and 60 V, but will work up as I feel comfortable and improve form), i've started though and intend on continuing long term.

[longerlastingnoob Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close longerlastingnoob]

Welcome back Carl. Good luck with your journey.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

Hey, from across the pond from me, welcome aboard

An inch gain in length should be doable. Stick to a beginner routine first of all to condition yourself and then see how you got on with that. The PESG or JP90 are good places to start.

Also, have a look at a few of the threads in my signature if you want stats and numbers about gains/time-lines etc.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Hello Carl I am glad you decided to join us. It appears you designed your best work already way to go. I am talking about your child, congratulations. Growing your penis should be no problem. Stay safe, consistent, persistent, and patient and you will meet your goals. Enjoy

[BigO AdministratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigO]

Hello Carl, welcome to the Gym!

Yep, PE will help with your goals. All of them Doing something about your concerns is empowering by itself, and the success in EQ and eventually, size gains, will get that confidence and good feeling back on track.

Along side PE, good diet and exercise will do you some good too. It will also help reduce the fat pad, which could help the measurements.

All in all, a good healthy approach to this will address it from all angles, and you will be back to good ol' Carl in no time.

Of course, if you have any questions, or don't understand something, the great members here are always happy to help. Don't hesitate to jump right in and get involved. Feel free to ask here, or start a thread.


Best of luck to you. Stay safe, and patient.