How do You Keep PE a Secret? Post Here

[scaryperson27 Member Find all posts View Profile Close scaryperson27]

Okay, so I'm sure a lot of you guys keep PE to yourself. I personally don't think that there is anything negative about that. If any of you guys want to share, lets us know how you keep your secret and your situation. How do you go about purchasing the equipment to help your success? Do you make the devices yourself with parts that don't give your secret away? If so post some info here.

How I do it:
I've been telling my wife that I want to go listen to music in the bathroom and then take a hot shower after and that it's relaxing for me. Which I do. I just leave the PE part of it out. This seems to do the trick. I guess my advice is that any good wife would want you to have time to relax with yourself so if anyone is in my situation, grab a cheap MP3 player, load it up with music and go find a privet place to relax and do PE.

I think I'll hit the H-Depot for PE tools when the time comes. I've seen a lot of DIY stuff with hardware store parts. If you guys have any suggestions, please post up.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

In my opinion, letting your wife in on what you are doing is a great idea, if you explain the health benefits to PE, and that you are not insecure about yourself but rather doing it for self improvement and EQ, she will most probably support you if not even help.

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[not2big Senior Super ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close not2big]

I do my PE (manual and mostly pumping) in the bathroom in the morning when I wake up and again at night before going to bed. Once in bed, I do jelqing and stretching for about 30 minutes under the covers. I use my extender in bed at night while my wife is sleeping. I use a VacExtender so it is no big deal if I doze off for thirty minutes or so.

However, I have ED so my wife is aware I sometimes pump to get an erection so hiding my pumping equipment is not an issue.

[scaryperson27 Member Find all posts View Profile Close scaryperson27]

Mr. BB,

Those are all good links. I may end up telling her or giving her the satisfaction of catching me one day. For now, I'm going to tease her with these mysterious gains that I will hopefully gain. It's kind of fun for me.

To each there own I guess.

Not2Big,

I can't believe you can hide that thing from her. My wife is a light sleeper. I couldn't get away with that.

[MrB8 Senior Member Member of the Month Nov 2013 Find all posts View Profile Close MrB8]

Good luck! And have fun!

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

As a wife, I was glad when my hubby finally told me. Even though I was/am perfectly fine with his size, I know it would make him more confident with himself. Now, he doesn't have to make excuses, and when our little one wants to talk to dad, I can redirect her instead of her knocking on the door and bugging him.

The fun part is helping him edge (when I can). I either give him a little show, or I help physically. It's a win win for both of us!

You will feel so much better once you let her know. You can even direct her to this site. We are also kind of a support group for both sexes.

[Big Al AdministratorPEGym EditorMale Enhancement Coach Rep.PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Big Al]

If you're training correctly, inevitable questions will very likely pop up about your growth and changes in performance.

[rbi99 Retired Moderator Member of the Month Nov 2017PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close rbi99]

I would tell you, but like they say - then I'd have to kill you.

[kickinthemebs Senior Member Member of the Month Feb 2014 Find all posts View Profile Close kickinthemebs]

You could wear a concealable extender to work such as the phallosan. You could do a quick stretch everytime you go to the toilet throughout the day/in bed at night while your wife is asleep. For girth work/jelqs/clamping you could do it while you listen to music like what you have been doing.

Or you could just say it to the mrs. and get it over with. In fairness, PE is a LONG-TERM thing, you will probably need to be doing it for a long time to see your goals, so don't really want to be hiding around etc? Your wife might think there is something up, perhaps more sinister than PE.

[Ball bearing Member Find all posts View Profile Close Ball bearing]

I am fortunate to have my own 1 man business which I can hide away in a corner where I can see if a customer comes in the front door.

I do PE in 5min sessions up to an hour a day then close the shop early most days and do a 10 to 20 min session before I go home, also the wife works night shift 3 nights a week so I do another 20 to 30 min session 3 nights a week.

As far as telling her I don't think I am ready but I am sure she has noticed my increase extra flaccid length and the 1" extra erect length and 3/8" girth but she hasn't said anything, just wish she would want it more often.

[TheGreatDivider Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close TheGreatDivider]

Would you rather let your girl find out you touch yourself and do strange things to make your penis bigger.... Or have your girlfriend/wife suspect you of many things and come to the conclusion that you're either a porn addict or having an affair. Because that's the women think.

[scaryperson27 Member Find all posts View Profile Close scaryperson27]

When the question comes up about where did that extra inch come from, I'll probably end up letting her know. That way I'll have something to back up my secret.

I still don't see anything wrong with men keeping it a secret. A lot of people do. I walk into the bathroom with a MP3 player so it's hard to make assumptions there.

[GoingForGold Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close GoingForGold]

My gf knows but thinks it's silly because I'm already so big and at first worried that I'm doing it to impress other people or get another girl. She's more comfortable with it now as I don't grow as quickly anymore so it doesn't shock her as much. I'm glad she knew though cuz she could confirm that my cock was growing, even if she had a hard time believing it.

I just take obscenely long showers or do it when she's asleep or gone.

[Mrs. workin_4_it Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Mrs. workin_4_it]

There is nothing to be ashamed of for doing PE. It's for all around penis health.

Yes, there are other benefits, but it's just like going to the gym and working out. You're just working a different muscle. Girlfriends/wife's should be supportive because it's hard work, and not to mention uncomfortable and most are doing it to please their woman more.

Be proud that you are being proactive about your sexual health.

[scaryperson27 Member Find all posts View Profile Close scaryperson27]

Thanks for all the positive reinforcement. I feel like I'll tell my wife after she starts to realize somthing is changing.

Thanks guys